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''How do you do?'' a greeting still used in English?

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So l've been told that the question''How do you do?'' is used to greet someone new that you don't know, l'm not sure about this information though, but what l'm sure about is that so far, l've never heard any native English Speaker using it.

This phrase was used in the English upper classes families, in the past, but l think it disappeared nowadays.

So what do you think about it?

Have you ever used ''How do you do?'' to greet someone new that you don't know? grin

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updated Jul 6, 2012
posted by 00b6f46c
great question! - amykay, Jul 22, 2011
Thanks Amy! - 00b6f46c, Jul 22, 2011
excellent question LL - Yeser007, Jul 23, 2011
Thank you :) - 00b6f46c, Jul 23, 2011

25 Answers

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It's an antiquated expression that one will hear when watching an old movie, or see when reading an old book.

But it is extremely rare in modern English, and the use of it would set you apart as a bit unusual.

So it depends on your goal. If you are a native English speaker and are trying to make yourself different from the crowd, it's a fine thing to say. People will assume you are being cute.

But if you're not a native English speaker and you are really trying to blend in, don't use this expression. You will only make people assume you don't know any better.

updated Jul 23, 2011
posted by Goyo
Thank you Goyo, this helps a lot! - 00b6f46c, Jul 22, 2011
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I use it when I'm joking around with family or friends. However, if you were walking into a business meeting, you might get some strange stares if you said, "How do you do?" raspberry

When meeting someone new, you will often hear "How are you?" or "What's up?" in English-speaking countries.

I don't think it's something you'd hear from someone your age or something you would say to someone your age.

Don't completely erase it from your vocabulary because you might hear it in older English movies. smile However, in everyday English, chances are you will not hear it!

Good question, Lovely! I hope I helped!! grin

updated Jul 23, 2011
edited by SonrisaDelSol
posted by SonrisaDelSol
Oh good to know sonrisa, l for sure won't use it! but in business, you can't meet a new boss and say ''what's up'' right? :roll: - 00b6f46c, Jul 22, 2011
Jaja!! That would be an interesting meeting! For a boss, it's perfectly acceptable to say"How are you, sir/madam?" - SonrisaDelSol, Jul 22, 2011
jeje well sounds good to me, thank you so much Sonrisa :) - 00b6f46c, Jul 22, 2011
De nada! Buena pregunta :) - SonrisaDelSol, Jul 22, 2011
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What about "if I was/were you"? I'd also like to read the answer of someone who lives in the UK.

I live in the UK too, Ianta. I say "If I were you". To me, it sounds very uneducated to say "If I was you". I'm sure there are plenty who say it - it will be the same group of people who also say things like "I done that yesterday", or "I don't like what he done to her" etc.

As for "How do you do?" - I'm not sure I've ever heard it other than in old films and books, it's super-formal and outdated. But if somebody from another country were to say it I'd find it quite charming!

As Sabor says, although it's worded as one it's not actually a question, but I suppose is equal to "mucho gusto" or "encantado/a" in Spanish, in other words it's a polite response to an introduction. In which case I say "Pleased to meet you".

To ask someone how they are I most frequently say "How are you?" or "How're things?" (¿Qué tal? or ¿Cómo estás? equivalents)

updated Jul 23, 2011
edited by galsally
posted by galsally
Thank God you'd find it charming and not ridiculous :) - ianta, Jul 23, 2011
Thank you so much Sally! :D - 00b6f46c, Jul 23, 2011
If I were you is correct. It's one of the few subjunctives still used in English. - Eddy, Jul 23, 2011
If I were you is the correct way to say it. =) - NikkiLR, Jul 23, 2011
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I've used it a few times, but it is more of a formal expression. I would use it only when meeting some one older and more respected than I. I don't use it however, with people around my age that I meet. So to answer your question, it is still used, just mostly in formal conversation.

updated Jul 23, 2011
posted by eltennis97
Thank you :) - 00b6f46c, Jul 22, 2011
Same here. I don't use it often, but if I do it will be in a fomal situation with strangers. Otherwise I use "How are you?" or "How are you doing?" - relente, Jul 23, 2011
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"If I were you, I'd...... this is the correct use of this conditional. There is a form of snobbism in most languages I presume, If you were to use "If I was you.." you'd send out the signal that you are probably an ill-educated member of the street-trash community.

updated Jul 23, 2011
edited by lagartijaverde
posted by lagartijaverde
I've heard "If I was you" on British TV. It's not difficult to guess the show. :) - ianta, Jul 23, 2011
jeje yes Ianta :) - 00b6f46c, Jul 23, 2011
I think you will find this is the subjunctive form and not the conditional. - Eddy, Jul 23, 2011
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It is a still used in some circles , but it can almost be described as rhetorical

because one does not expect an answer , and even bad form to give one.

Even here in OZ we may say ," G'day how ya goin ?" but we are not hoping

for a detailed account of your medical history , the reply would just be

" Ah G'day how are you goin " .But I have still heard it used by expats,

as well as some Indian and Sri Lankan people.

updated Jul 23, 2011
posted by ray76
New information for me ray :) l didn't know you that the reply is simply the same question, thanks :D - 00b6f46c, Jul 22, 2011
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Two fat policemen met in the lane, Bowed most politely, bowed once again. How do you do? How do you do? How do you do again?

Two pretty ladies met in the lane, Bowed most politely, bowed once again. How do you do? How do you do? How do you do again?

Two fine gentlemen met in the lane, Bowed most politely, bowed once again. How do you do? How do you do? How do you do again?

Two little schoolboys met in a lane, Bowed most politely, bowed once again. How do you do? How do you do? How do you do again?

Two little babies met in a lane, Bowed most politely, bowed once again. How do you do? How do you do? How do you again?

This is a simple rhyme that uses your thumbs and all your fingers. Two fat policemen - thumbs Two pretty ladies - forefingers Two fine gentlemen - middle fingers Two little school boys - ring fingers Two liitle babies - little fingers

Start with your thumbs held up, facing each other so that they can bend towards each other to bow. Bow, twice and then alternately when you say 'How do you do?' and then together again for the last line. Repeat using other fingers.

This is the rhyme I remember, it is said with appropriate voices, very deep and gruff for the policemen ranging to high and squeaky for the babies,

updated Jul 23, 2011
posted by MaryMcc
Cute. I never heard this before. - pesta, Jul 23, 2011
Oh that's very nice, l have to try this game! thanks wilbur! - 00b6f46c, Jul 23, 2011
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I've used it to address older people or a client on occasion.Good question.

updated Jul 23, 2011
posted by heliotropeman
Thank you heliotropeman! - 00b6f46c, Jul 22, 2011
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Have you ever used ''How do you do?'' to greet someone new that you don't know?

"How do you do" is not a greeting like Hi or What's up or How are you but is what you say to someone you have just been introduced to. Saying It's nice to meet you is often acceptable as well. The only correct response to How do you do is to say How do you do to the person who said it first. It is commonly used in situations where men shake hands.

updated Jul 23, 2011
posted by Sabor
Well, put. And, yes, "It's nice to meet you" would be a good equivalent phrase. - webdunce, Jul 23, 2011
Also, Pleased to meet you. :) - galsally, Jul 23, 2011
Very helpful Sabor, thank you! thanks webdunce and sally :) - 00b6f46c, Jul 23, 2011
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"Hello, How do you do? "would be the full sentence. Could be useful if you are being introduced to a number of people in a group. Saves you from saying exactly the same thing each time. Might make you sound classy grin

updated Jul 23, 2011
posted by teasip
Good idea, thanks teasip! - 00b6f46c, Jul 23, 2011
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howdy ? smile

updated Jul 23, 2011
posted by Amigooo
Oh that's new! nice! thanks amigo! - 00b6f46c, Jul 23, 2011
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And what happen with the 3rd person , he, she or it, do we have to use was or were? if he was/were me... thank you...

updated Jul 26, 2011
posted by Peinadin
It is were for all persons. It he were you, if they were you, if I were you, if you were you (the last one isn't generally said, though.) It is English subjunctive (past tense in this case), which always uses the same conjugation for all persons. - webdunce, Jul 23, 2011
then, why the song says "what if god was one of us"? - Peinadin, Jul 26, 2011
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Well, in my world it would not sound strange. Maybe, too, I am antiquated as someone else mentioned.

In the south I believe it deteriorated into "How do ye do?" to "Howdy do?" to just plain "Howdy?".

I haven't really thought about it but I suppose I would probably use "How do you do?"

updated Jul 23, 2011
posted by 00d7cd75
Howdy is the new version of it! that's great! thanks Ken. - 00b6f46c, Jul 23, 2011
Howdy is the southeastern USA version of it (country, rural, hick, red-neck version)...I myself am from the southeastern USA... ;) I'm from LA (Lower Alabama, a nick-name for north Florida). - webdunce, Jul 23, 2011
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This greeting is still used as a formal introduction during business meetings. How's it going, hanging or wat's up would be greeted with total incredulity.

updated Jul 23, 2011
posted by Eddy
Good to know, thank you Eddy. - 00b6f46c, Jul 23, 2011
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Well just as in Spanish with ¿Comó estas? ¿Qué tal? ¿Qué pasa? there are many different ways to greet someone but your question deals simply with "How do you do? As pointed out by most, it is an antiquated greeting but still used by some such as myself in the right situation. Let's say for example going through a reception line at a wedding, very formal situation, or meeting a new client in my business, especially one who would obviously expect such a courtesy (the ones with big buckssmile ). So does this mean I am antiquated? Well it was the way I was raised so probably not so unheard of from my generation. I hope this helps.

updated Jul 23, 2011
posted by Yeser007
I use it with everyone and no one has ever told me that this expression is old. It's the first time I hear it. - ianta, Jul 23, 2011
Well it's for sure used in the very formal situations, dealing with people who you would excpect them to use it! thank you yeser :) - 00b6f46c, Jul 23, 2011