Here are some tips on rolling the r:

(1) You are not trying to move your tongue up and down really fast. You could never move your tongue fast enough.

(2) Instead, You try to hold the tip of your tongue against the roof of your mouth just behind your teeth while vigorously blowing air out of your mouth over your tongue.

(3) It is the tongue resisting the airflow that causes the tip of the tongue to vibrate rapidly against the roof of the mouth.

CAUTION: If you press the tongue's tip too tightly to the roof of the mouth, the air will just go around the tongue. If you don't quite touch the roof of the mouth, the air just goes over the tongue. You want the tip of the tongue to just barely touch the roof of the mouth and to just barely resist the force of the air going out.

TIP: Holding your lips in a loose "o" formation will probably be easiest, so start with that formation. You can experiment with different mouth shapes, though.

TIP: The Spanish RR is a voiced sound, but it is easier if you begin by concentrating your effort only on making the flapping motion. Once you are able to achieve that, then just add your voice to it.

TIP: As you practice, you will be holding the sound longer than you would in an actual word. The RR sound, when held for a long duration, is actually a motor-like sound, which you may have made naturally as a child if you ever tried to imitate motor noises (I certainly did).

I know I'm getting side-tracked here but has anyone had a "go" at a digeridoo? (The Koori/Australian Aboriginal sound instrument). You do this circular breathing kind-of-thing - really hard - some people have the "knack" producing wonderful sounds at their first attempts. Others....like me....take forever to the hang of it. That's how I was with trilling Rs -.took me ages..and...I still suffer from "performance anxiety" but...I'm getting better...

Lots of luck bj Annie.

Try placing your tongue in a "T-sound" position. Say "T" (the "T-sound" as in "tick", not "train" no "ch" aspiration) and at the same time try pushing the air between the tip of your tongue and your alveoral ridge, and you should feel your tongue vibrating (or flapping and hitting the alveoral ridge with a great spead). Remember: spanish "rrr" has nothing to do with moving your tongue intentionally, but rather letting it loose a bit and pushing the air inside out.

Well it just came to me through practice in my Spanish 1 class. We actually spent a whole class just doing that and the other "odd" Spanish letters. So I would have to say that practice makes perfect!

How to learn to roll my R's. Example perra. Please help me.

If you were a male, I'd say "toy trucks and machine guns". You'd be doing it by bedtime.

But since you're a lady....... I'm drawing a blank.

Funny, as a little kid, way before I probably even knew Spanish existed, I would "sing" this way, just rolling my tongue along for fun. Lucky I did I guess! Now, I just have to get better at making it part of words in a natural way rather than just going rrrrrRRRRrrRrrrrRRRRRRrrrrrrrrr

I've tried everything, and I mean everything, and to this day I can't really 'trill' my r's. I've given it up to 'genetically impossible'. At least that's what my wife says

Well, it IS better to move on to other parts of the language rather than to get bogged down with how to roll your Rs. Myself, I have given up..at least for now...on getting the B/V sound just right...or the G sound that is in agua. I just use the English B, V, and G sounds respectively.

However, it is not a genetic thing, so far as I know. I think many people experience problems because they are trying to make their tongue do some weird thing. But the tongue need not do anything except try to touch the roof of your mouth . While the tongue is trying to do this, you blow out.

So, to reiterate, if you are able to touch the tip of your tongue gently against the roof of your mouth and if you are able to blow out air, then you can roll your Rs.

The force of the air blowing out tries to push the tongue tip down. But your tongue is steadily trying to touch the roof of your mouth (thus resisting the force of the air blowing out).

This tug-of-war between the tongue and the air causes the tongue tip to vibrate against the roof of the mouth.

Now, there is a delicateness to it. If you use too much force to hold the tongue tip against the roof of the mouth, the air will just go around the sides of the tongue. But, if you use too little force, then the air will succeed in pushing the tongue tip down and you'll just get a hissing sound. You have to just counter the force of the air.

And, of course, let us not forget the simpler idea that you may have made this exact same sound as a child if you ever tried to imitate a car motor or a machine gun. If you hold the RR sound out, it is a motor-like noise. I made it all the time as a boy but I was imitating cars and guns...I was not trying to roll a Spanish RR.

All that to say, I hope one day you can revisit trying to make the sound and successfully make it. If trying to roll the RR discourages you, then it is best to leave it alone for now and come back to it later. You certainly don't want to let this one obstacle prevent you from enjoying the rest of the language!

If you ever do make it, you will probably make it a bit too strong, and over time you make it more gentle-sounding. When I watch movies in Spanish, I'm barely able to notice when they roll an R, but if you listen to me, it's like blah, blah, blah...excuse me, I'm gonna roll an R now....blah blah blah.

But even if you never get the hang of it, you can of course still speak Spanish...you'll just have an accent. And it has absolutely no impact on reading, writing, or listening to Spanish.

Now THAT is a long-winded post. You deserve some kind of medal if you read it all.

Cheers, --webdunce

Okay, I thought I would never be able to roll my rr's, but I can now!! I would not let my myself stop saying the word 'tres' (yes, I know it isn't actually a rr ) It is still took about six months of constant practicing....and I mean six months of saying that word over a thousand times a day. I sometimes still hesitate on some words, but for the most part I show off now,

I learned to roll my r's at the age of 28. They say if you don't learn as a child it's very difficult. I used something called the butter ladder method which is essentially just saying either butter or ladder (whichever you prefer) over and over again as fast as you can for 15 minutes a day or so. Anyway, I think my touge got used to the necessary movements that way and after about 4 or 6 weeks I was able to do it. I have to admit, it was a long 4 weeks trying and I really didn't feel like I was making progress but one day it just clicked.

You know how guys are attracted to females?? You know when they are looking at them they RRRRRRR (the cat sound)? Try that and see if that works.

I've tried everything, and I mean everything, and to this day I can't really 'trill' my r's. I've given it up to 'genetically impossible'. At least that's what my wife says

I found this site about 'tongue rolling'. It's amazing what stuff you can find on the internet.

http://www.discovery.com/area/skinnyon/skinnyon970226/skinny1.html

All these posters have given great advice I have heard though that it is genetically impossible for some people to roll their r's, even some people born in Spanish speaking countries cannot do it.