agobiar

Eso significa que encontramos al alma en el otro y no nos agobiamos con su personalidad.	That means we meet the soul in the other and don't burden ourselves with his personality.
Bueno, quizá si no agobiamos tanto a Manny, y le enseñamos... no estaría tan asustado.	Well, maybe if we didn't bully Manny so much, but, rather, showed him, he wouldn't be so afraid.
Cuando vemos en la otra persona, al alma y no la personalidad, estamos en conformidad con el alma y no nos agobiamos con la personalidad.	When we see in the other the soul and not the personality, we meet the soul and don't burden ourselves with the personality.
Así lo confirma una costumbre que se ha convertido en algo habitual en este Parlamento, es decir, agobiamos a los ciudadanos con reglamentos que, en muchos casos, les complican la vida y no tienen un efecto significativo en su día a día.	This is confirmed by a certain custom, which has become the norm in this Parliament, namely snowing citizens under with regulations which, in many cases, make their lives difficult and which do not have a significant effect on their standard of living.
De hecho, pasamos más tiempo cuidando de nuestros coches, nuestra ropa y nuestro pelo que de... bueno, tal vez no el pelo, pero ven a lo que me refiero. El resultado, por supuesto, es que nos agobiamos.	In fact, we spend more time looking after our cars, our clothes and our hair than we—okay, maybe not our hair, but you see where I'm going.