Some 'personal a' confusion
Hello, I am trying to translate "I don't have anybody at home who can speak with me"
Here is my attempt: "No tengo nadie en mi casa (o hogar?) quien (o que?) puede hablar conmigo"
Sometimes I search up fragments to translate, and when I try to translate "I don't have anyone" I get "No tengo a nadie" (from different sites). I thought when you use the personal a, there are some verbs like tener, necesitar, and hay that you don't use it with?
For instance, if I try to say "I have Maria" --> "Tengo Maria" o "Tengo a Maria" ? I feel like it is the former because the personal a with tener/necesito just sounds out of place. But maybe alguien/nadie is the exception?
And yet after going through the personal a confusion, I just need confirmation: you only used it with named people or defined pets, not pronouns right? "Yo llamo a Maria" --> "Yo la llamo" (not "Yo a la llamo" (?))
To summarize my questions: 1) Translating "I don't have anybody at home to speak with me" (and mini clarifications with word-choice needed like casa/hogar and quien/que) 2) Personal a and using it with alguien/nadie for verbs you normally don't use it with "Tengo a alguien" 3) Personal a and pronouns (just need to confirm)
If anyone can answer/clarify these for me that would be appreciated. Thanks!
7 Answers
My two centavos' worth:
Usually with the verb "tener" the personal "a" is not used. There is a children's Sunday Scnool chorus which goes:
"Yo tengo un amigo que me ama, me ama, me ama,
yo tengo un amigo que me ama. Su nombre es Jesús."
Notice no personal "a" I could give many other examples, but I think this one will serve the purpose. ![]()

Or you could say:
No tengo nadie en casa que puede hablar conmigo.
= I don't have anybody (anyone) at home who can speak with me.
or ...
I don't have anybody at home with whom I can speak (talk)
= No tengo nadie en casa con quien puedo hablar.
The construction that Rey gave you:
No hay nadie en casa etc...is a very good one
Regarding the use of the personal a, the native Spanish-speaking people use it when talking about people, for example: friends and family, and pets for whom they have a strong personal affection! ![]()
ex's:
1.María fue a visitar a su abuela, Consuela esta tarde.
=Maria went to visit her grandmother, Consuela, this afternoon.
2.¿Conoce usted a un buen médico por aqui? Por favor?
=Do you know a good doctor around here, please?
3.Estefano quiere a su perra.
=Stephen loves his dog.
But... Estefano la quiere = Stephen loves her! ; The personal a is not used when on the indirect object pronoun is substituted for (used in place) of the noun.
I hope this helps you ![]()
I would use the personal A in your sentence, ie:
No tengo a nadie en casa que hable conmigo.
No tengo a nadie en casa con quien puedo hablar.
Or as Rey used hay without the personal A.
don't have anybody at home who can speak with me
no hay nadie en la casa que hable conmigo
No tengo a nadie a nadie en casa que pueda hablar conmigo.
When we say "nadie" we are talking about people so we need the personal "a".
We use "pueda", subjunctive, because the subjunctive is used after no hay nada que, no hay nadie que, and no hay ningún/ninguna+noun que.
No hay nada que te guste. Theres nothing that you like. No hay nadie aquí que pueda ayudarte.There isnt anyone here who can help you.. No hay ninguna tienda que cierre después de las 8pm. Theres no store that close after 8pm.
However,
Hay algo que te gusta. Theres something that you like. Hay alguien aquí que puede ayudarte. Theres someone here who can help you Hay alguna tienda que cierra después de las 8pm. There´s some store that closes after 8pm.
Also, the subjunctive is usually used after hay algo/alguien/algún/alguna in questions because the antecedent is not identified.
¿Hay algo que te guste? Is there something you like? ¿Hay alguien aquí que pueda ayudarte? Is there someone here who can help you? ¿Hay alguna tienda que cierre después de las 8pm? Is there any store that closes today?
Hope this helps you.
When I have a problem like that i try to simplify the sentence to make translating easier
1 There is nobody at home to speak to =No hay nadie en casa para hablar con
2 I have nobody to speak to at home =No tengo a nadie para hablar con en casa.
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"I don't have anybody at home who can speak with me" literalmente "Yo no tengo a nadie en casa que pueda hablar conmigo"