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Reevaluate - Jimmy1978's post

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With all due respect, I do not think Jimmy1978's comment should have been closed. His argument is viable. As I do not agree with Jimmy from time and time again, in this case, I see a credible question. This should be reevaluated and opened once again. There was no offensive content what-so-ever.

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updated May 24, 2014
edited by jphip
posted by jphip
" and opened once again" " There was no " - ray76, May 21, 2014
; ) - jphip, May 21, 2014
Thanks jphip .. Thanks for realizing and understanding my true intent (which was only to help my friends and not to offend any one) .. and thanks for standing by .. - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
and I don't think we have ever had any difference of opinion ever about Spanish or any other matter ,, no sure which incident or incidents you are referring to but I can't recall any .. hehe - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
typo : not* - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
I really like this site and see nothing but positive things to come. We should all appreciate the fact that it doesn't cost a dime. Keep doing a great job moderators, posters, and individuals who work behind the scenes to make this a great place. : ) - jphip, May 21, 2014
how do you get reputation? - GReese, May 21, 2014
by doing good deeds for others ..hehe (like answering others' questions, posting some good informative matter for the benefit of all the members, asking good questions etc.) if people like your questions or answers they will vote for u and each vote will - 00b055e0, May 23, 2014
get u some rep points .. hehe - 00b055e0, May 23, 2014

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Being a mod is a thankless job and one that I would never volunteer for. So thank you to those of you who have made that committment. I have had my issues and so I can understand both sides but still I have to say thank you to all the mods for doing a job that I would not care to do.

updated May 24, 2014
posted by gringojrf
Gracias amigo - sometimes it can get a little heated or out of control. - ian-hill, May 21, 2014
The reason is because we are communicating with text and not voice and smiles and friendly eyes etc. - ian-hill, May 21, 2014
Yes I agree ,, I really feel so sad when I have to deal with such vituperation .. I have put it behind me already .. let's just move on with a positive attitude .. I am not a choleric character .. so no hard feelngs for any one - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
And I also agree with you on this one Ian .. that comunicating with tiext is not many a times as effective as a regular verbal communication with gestures .. so we all tend to misunderstand at times when communicating this way .. - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
:) - annierats, May 22, 2014
Ian, do you not think, in view of what you have just said, that bringing back smilies might help to better understand each other's attemts to communicate? - FELIZ77, May 24, 2014
After all we use body language and tone of voice as part of our communication skills when we speak to people face to face and it helps to clarify matters and reduce the chance of misunderstandings and yet we are trying to avoid using emoticons in ourur - FELIZ77, May 24, 2014
I mean, in our communications with each other - FELIZ77, May 24, 2014
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As a great abuser of power , and hungry for more I must respond .

The post was closed not because of Jimmy or what the dear fellow said ,

It was closed because the comments were becoming far too heated in a

way where tempers may have flared out of control. they may not have ,

of course , but experience has shown over the years that it is better to err

on the side of caution . So if you want to berate , beat or castigate me please

do so , but in a manner of friendly controlled flagellation , but be advised I

am a self flagellator of many years standing therefore inured of a tender whipping ,

so lay on the lathe with relish , ask Jimmy for help . Actually Jimmy and I have a

warm and healthy relationship , had I been abroad at that ungodly hour I would

joined into the discussion , I also am a student of English as is he , although my

degree was earned in another time , and perhaps another world .

In conclusion dear members please realise and understand that the "Mod Squad"

are working tirelessly 24 x 7 on your behalf , they may not get it correct on every

instance but, they never ever purposely close a post or delete a comment

without first discussing the whys and wherefores , and then only with a two mod

agreement , so hurry and berate away before I close my own post for inciting violence

on a person , albeit an old defenceless and possibly witless one.

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updated May 24, 2014
edited by ray76
posted by ray76
Go easy on yourself mate. :) - ian-hill, May 21, 2014
hehe ,, i love you Ray .. you are an excellent moderator and a great friend .. your decission to close the post was correct to avoid any further misunderstanding and galvanization between members .. I don't know about others but I sure was on the verge - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
of losing my mental equanimity and equipoise and had the post not been closed I might have said some thing at the spur of the moment which I might have had to regret later on ..as a matter of fact I requested Annie myself to delete the post .. as I am a p - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
as I have a peaceful disposition and hate to be overbaring on any one or being a part of such a heat and fury just because of a simple misunderstanding .. - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
"Best forum on the net". Sounds a little pretentious. By the way, correcting my English does not make my point less valid. I got tired of seeing big mistakes in pretty much all Spanish posts from moderators. - DualG, May 21, 2014
thank you for explaining. :) I had a post of mine closed for the same reason. It is closed to keep people from becoming enemies. thanks ray - actorgirl, May 21, 2014
Well I was going to stay out of this one, but DualG lured me in with his comment to Ray. DualG, don't you appreciate someone correcting your English? You should as that is the way we learn. - 007c5fc1, May 21, 2014
As for the mods making errors in Spanish, some are not native Spanish speakers...obviously their Spanish will not be perfect, just as your English is not perfect. We should be here helping each other, not griping about each others' intelligence. - 007c5fc1, May 21, 2014
or lack thereof. - 007c5fc1, May 21, 2014
my friends ,, my friends ... please please please .. can we not please talk about some thing posotive now for a change .. like a chocolate ice cream or Magi's beautiful dress or Jimmy's beautiful heart or Ray's intelligence etc. etc ... - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
Oops...sorry Ray...I should have commented on DualG's offering, not yours. - 007c5fc1, May 21, 2014
please lets just get over with this vituperation and lets just move forward on a positive note .. we are friends remember ? - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
Are you telling me to shut up jimmy? Have I said something wrong? - 007c5fc1, May 21, 2014
My language was neither bitter or abusive to anyone so your 'vituperation' comment is not going down well at all. - 007c5fc1, May 21, 2014
ohhh .. no no my friend .. not atall - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
I completely agree with u Magi .. but all I am saying is that if we all continue debating indefinately the commenting on this post will keep going on ... - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
magi my comment was not meant for you specifically .. it was a request to every one who has been a part of this debate - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
I understand jimmy. I will refrain from commenting further, just to please you. - 007c5fc1, May 21, 2014
Margherite, I appreciate the corrections when they are done in good faith. Not when are done just to diminish the post. - DualG, May 21, 2014
because I just saw a comment a while back which had some rude language (not yours) mso that is why I used the term vituperation ... - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
yes DualG .. I agree .. even I appreciate being corrected as often as possible but the intention behind it matters the most .. - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
thanks Magi ... I appreciate your understanding :) - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
Ray dear...please don't wear socks and shoes when you have your photo taken in your underwear. It just looks funny. :-) - 007c5fc1, May 21, 2014
hehe .. - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
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Excellent ,now lets go learn and have some fun. However,not without first thanking our moderators for all they do. (Round of applause). May the force be with you.

updated May 24, 2014
posted by heliotropeman
haha .. yes I agree and laud their support .. but some times it gets a little overbaring .. my little request and feedback is to give a little benefit of doubt to the members if there is any such language observed and give the member a chance to delete it - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
and to apologise before dealing out invectives on him/her .. If the member refuses to obey then yes the moderators must get stirner for obvious reaosns .. Just a request/feedback .. If the mods like it they may impliment else ignore it .. Regards . - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
Thank you Helio :) - ian-hill, May 21, 2014
I'm not lauding anything until ray removes the offensive underwear. :=-) - 007c5fc1, May 21, 2014
Hi Magi . - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
Oh Maggy , I thought that they were rather becoming , not quite me though , i prefer the other pair with the natty little , or not so little pocket. - ray76, May 21, 2014
hehe .. little pockets can come in handy to stick in some coins or other petty items .. hehe - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
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My friends .. people who know me well also know that I am a philanthrope and an altruistic being who likes helping others .. So most of my informative posts are meant to serve that purpose (not to offend any one) .. If I might have ignorantly offended some one due to perhaps an oversight while drafting my post I apologized unconditionally and removed that matter at once ,,,

My humble request to every one is to look at the positive side of the coin (that some one is trying to help without any selfish motive or interest) and if one can't be appreiciative of that one should atleast refrain from being disrespectful (knowingly or unknowingly)..

Yesterday I made my mind to just walk away and sent a farewell message to my good friends on SD. After looking at this post however and after talknig to many of my friends thgrough PMs ,, I am staying .. (though my staying or leaving doesn't make a difference ,, as I am just a little diminutive fish in a big ocean of many thousand profoundly learned members ).. So I declare those farewell notes null and void (void ab-initio) .. hehehe ..

updated May 24, 2014
edited by 00b055e0
posted by 00b055e0
Jimmy, I felt it a bit excessive to silence you, but just let these things blow over, it's not the first upset on this foro. Keep posting, my good man! - annierats, May 21, 2014
Jimmy , little fishes are sweet mate , glad you are staying to help our game , now all this behind us and " Let the games begin". - ray76, May 21, 2014
Thanks Annie .. hows wofie doing .. say my "hi" to him :) - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
@Ray : Yes Sir ,, I am a sweet little fish but an intrepid and dauntless one .. hehehe - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
I'm glad you changed your mind jimmy. You have a lot to offer. :-) - 007c5fc1, May 21, 2014
Aww Magi .. thanks for your kind words Magi ,, friends like you (And others ofcourse like Annie) keep me going ,, thanks again - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
Glad you're staying jimmy.I like how you handled this without offense. Strong the force with this one. - heliotropeman, May 23, 2014
@heliotropema : thanks my friend .. I am glad too .. because I got some great friends here and I never want to walk away from them ... thank u for your kind words - 00b055e0, May 23, 2014
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Being a moderator is not easy and not fun most of the time. I thank all the moderators, but in the same token, I have seen that in some other forums there is an explanation of why the thread is being closed, something that here and most of other forums don't do.

What do you think? Just a brief explanation would have sufficed like "thread being closed because the discussion is getting out of hand" or something like that.

From then on everything has to be done through PM, if necessary.

updated May 24, 2014
posted by chileno
I agree. On the thread in question, I did leave a reason before closing it. - rac1, May 21, 2014
Oh didn't check it, really. I perused the thread to get a feeling of what was going on... that's an excellent habit, by the way. :) - chileno, May 21, 2014
Hi Chileno - rac1 closed it after much deliberation with other mods and with an explanation. :) - ian-hill, May 21, 2014
yes ,, Chileno .. being a moderator is not atall easy .. I can't even think of taking up that responsibility .. and I have no issues with the post being closed .. in fact I am happy it was closed and it was a wise decission I would say - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
it was done to keep the volcano from irrupting .. hehe - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
:) - chileno, May 21, 2014
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Imagine if, in the middle of a debate, any of the members of the US congress called Israel and apartheid state or capitalism the tool for imperial domination of others' human and physical resources.

Actual rightness or wrongness are of no matter any longer when you call things for what they are or might be, and that is very obvious; (political) correctness, OTOH, rules across the different boards and works as a wobbly grounding to the different facets of interaction between people, hence the drama of seemingly petty grammatical skirmishes is tantamount to the diplomatic rows nurtured by the doublespeaking rulership that disguises reality under the lousy cloak of scripted language. Everybody has rules after all, don't they?

So I think that the reevaluation of the issue is of no use. Moderators are here as enforcers of the rules that haven't been set by them, not only as forum participants; some subjects seem to be too distracting for the language leaning process after all.

updated May 24, 2014
posted by diagonx
I agree - I think :) - ian-hill, May 21, 2014
Thanks mate b, big problem when we are using text only . "The moving finger writes , and having writ moves on , nor all your piety nor wit can cancel half a line , nor all your tears wash out a single word of it " therin lies our problem,. - ray76, May 21, 2014
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As my response to Jimmy started all this I feel entitled to make a comment here.

One thing that Jimmy wrote was this.

"Ian you need to behave in a more mature and responsible way .. your job as a moderator is to respectfully handle the issues and maintain a congenial atmosphere for all (and not to settle scores by unduly insulting the members time and again) - jimmy1978 "

I have no idea what "old scores" he is talking about - so I doubt anyone else does, and regard it therefore as a slur on my character.

  • and I don't remember insulting members "time and again".

It is a pity when things get out of hand in such a way.

Other mods and I discussed this thread privately for a long time before deciding it was best to "close" it.

We don't do that often.

Best regards to every one.

Ian

updated May 22, 2014
posted by ian-hill
Ian If you start correcting every little typo error .. do you think that is mature .. for example (it is don't not dont) ,, do you realy think that a person who possesses the knolwdge of advanced English Vocabulary and grammatical concepts would really - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
would really need to know about a mere apocopation .. i am sure you knew very well that it was just a typo and you commented anyway (perhaps being vindictive) ,,, I am sorry if my perception was wrong and I take back my words .. - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
and you said .. "Jimmy now you are just playing with your words" My friend .. I have no reason to be playing with any words .. when I realised that comment Annie had pounted out was vulnerable to be interpreted as offensive I immidiately apologized and re - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
remved it ... So please don't just measure my words ,, I request you to do an analysis of yours too and we shall all be in peace .. Thanks you . - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
I have no intention to deal out any aspersion on you character my dear .. I am peaceful person and I just got way too offended due to my post being sabotaged like that .. I am sorry if you felt that way .. - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
correction.. sorry I missed out the indefinite article .. "I am a peaceful person" please don't correct me on this one Ian .. just a typo error again .. I type tooooo fast .. hehe - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
Jimmy I don't feel like doing that. :) - ian-hill, May 21, 2014
thanks mate ,, appreciate it :) - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
Jimmy, with all respect, you often correct (often quite rudly) tiny spelling and grammar mistakes in Spanish. It is a little hipocryitical to be upset if someone corrects your English. - deedeegill72, May 21, 2014
thanks for your lovely comment deedeegill ... that is just your perception ... i cant change it ... I have no problem with some one correcting me (I rather appreciate it) but it is the intention behind it that matters ... if the intention is to help then - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
I welcome any correction (even a little one) with open arms .. but if the intention is to belittle me (as some one else's ego perhaps got hurt after reading my post) that is not welcome ... and please don't call me a hypocryte again ..thanks again - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
whenever I correct some one .. my intention is always to help .. if some people draw a negative perception out of it ...well I cant do any thing about it ... - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
if u will ever try to correct me .. or any one for that matter ,, I will be very grateful for your help .. (the issue I brought across was not "being corrected" but the intention behind it .. thanks - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
I request u all to kindly don't let these misunderstandings proliferate .. I have already put it behind me . so lets just move forward with a clean heart .. thanks every one - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
Jimmy...you told me to can it...please do the same. - 007c5fc1, May 21, 2014
yes Magi .. this one is prior to our discussion .. hehe .. I have ceased a - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
I have already ceased all comments now - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
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I probably should not post on this, and probably should take my normal tact of just avoiding any controversy and keeping my mouth shut. But at times I am unable to restrain myself.

So for the current controversy I will say that I think the current moderators are doing a good job, and seem to take a generally respectful, fair and balanced approach. I do think Jimmy is truly trying to be helpful and positive, and is not trying cause problems, but I do think his very enthusiastic approach is somewhat offsetting to some people who are not used to this manner of relating. I did even see once where he tried to correct the Spanish advice given by a native Spanish speaker with a tone that seemed to indicate that he thought the individual was a Spanish learner (I personally never comment on anyone's answers without first looking at their profile). Nonetheless I think his comments are made with the best of intentions and never with an intent to offend anyone.

That being said, I have to comment on the comments that there have never been issues with the moderators.

At one point Jubilado felt it necessary to post this:

Kristallnacht

Of course without context it is difficult for anyone who does not remember the issue to have any clue what I am talking about, or what the message of that post truly was. Oh, well.

I will say in all the posts that I have read by Jubilado, he seems to be an incredibly bright, thoughtful, polite, helpful, and fair and balanced person; one of the most so I have encountered. If a moderator succeeds in making him take the side of the other party, I would always make the initial assumption that that is the right side.

That being said, I think at this point that situation (the one that got Jubilado involved) has been rectified. And perhaps it does nothing but give me personal satisfaction in raising it again.

My only other comment would be that I think maintaining a positive tone is very important to the health of the site. I for one tend to cease posting when I don't like the general tone of things, and I suspect I am probably not alone in this.

updated May 24, 2014
edited by bosquederoble
posted by bosquederoble
thanks for your comment my friend... that's ok my friend ,, we are all humans ,, misunderstandings do creep in at times and it is good that Annie closed the post ,, that was a mature decission to keep people from getting further aggravated ,, - 00b055e0, May 24, 2014
Ray and Annie are great friends but I understand their responsibilities as moderators so .. friends do get upset with each other but good friends don't lug that on for ever ..so next day when I woke up I had already put it behind me .. - 00b055e0, May 24, 2014
and thanks for sharing the feedback ., I remember it was a bit embaracing when I had inadvertently commented on a native's answer (but my comment was right ,, hehe) .. but I agree with your advice,.. thanks for sharing your views .. cheers - 00b055e0, May 24, 2014
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I've read the post, and I agree with you, but why are you surprised? Moderators abuse their power in every forum I've been so far.

updated May 24, 2014
posted by DualG
" Iv'e been on so far " - ray76, May 21, 2014
Oh dear you must have been on some ropey old forums , SD has the best forum on the net , we do not abuse power but work , usually without thanks or pay on your behalf . Wise men think then act , when the witless men react. - ray76, May 21, 2014
Dual, I have never seen an abuse of power here. This one just struck me by surprise. I believe we can all more forward from here. : ) - jphip, May 21, 2014
Ray .. please don't think that your work or efforts go unnoticed we sure do appreciate yours and other Mods help and support .. but between friends .. there is no express exchange of appreciations too often .. it is tacit or implied most of the times ..he - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
sorry Ian it is (Mod's) please don't correct me again .. I know it .. hehe (just kidding) - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
To be correct Jimmy it is "other "mods' " plural possesive. Sorry mate :) - ian-hill, May 21, 2014
possessive - oops!" - ian-hill, May 21, 2014
yes dear .. u are right .. it is mods' // my bad :) - 00b055e0, May 21, 2014
I disagree dual. As long as I have been here, the SD mods have been fair. - actorgirl, May 21, 2014
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I wish to thank all the Moderators for the wonderful job they do on this forum.Que Dios te bendiga.

I agree that further comments should not be made on a post when it is closed.However, I think we should be allowed to view such posts so that we can learn from them. The way it is now,those of us who did not get to see certain posts before they were closed,do not know why they were closed in the first place.

Saludos.

updated May 24, 2014
posted by osas-baby
Hi Osas and thank you. Any posts that I have closed, I leave an explanation in the comment section. - rac1, May 22, 2014
You can also PM a mod for a further explanation , we are easy to approach , thanks for the comment mate. - ray76, May 22, 2014
Hola osas - gracias amiga - ian-hill, May 22, 2014