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Falleció La Señora Madre de Nuestro Querido "Ray" (Rays' mother has passed away.)

Falleció La Señora Madre de Nuestro Querido "Ray" (Rays' mother has passed away.)

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I have just become aware that our senior and most accomplished forum member has just lost his mother. To Ray76, my deepest sympathy. I hope you all will join me in sending condolences to this good man who is such an intregal part of the SpanishDict community.

Ray, mi más sincero péseme por la pérdida de su Señora Madre.

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updated Nov 6, 2013
edited by 002262dd
posted by 002262dd
I'm so sorry to hear this news Don José, thank you for posting this. Thee will be a lot of sad people in this forum today. - 0095ca4c, May 24, 2013
Gracias, Don José, le envié un mensaje personal. Gracias también por las palabras de fe. - Jubilado, May 24, 2013
Thanks DonJose, for a post we all wanted to share in. - katydew, May 24, 2013
I am deeply touched by all this Joe , I should not be surprised because members of SD are a special bunch , this has been very moving for me and my family. Thanks mates. - ray76, May 26, 2013
Thanks Don Jose for doing this post . - shish75, May 28, 2013

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All we have here on SD are words , but they are words of great power , they create

and inspire us each day . Your wonderful words have lifted my spirits and made me

realise that I am not alone , we all suffer the same loss and overcome the same way.

Our grief is a time of introspection when we valuate our lives , the meaning , and the

direction we have taken and may now take. I have thought deeply over the past

few days and realise how lucky I have been to have had almost 80 years with

a great mother , I can no longer enjoy her company but I have glorious memories ,

and I am so grateful that she prepared me so well and set me up for the next

80 years.

Living so long and being still very fit is a two edged sword, ones friends

have either left or are not healthy , which means that one is alone quite a lot ,

but I am lucky in having a world wide family of friends on SD who are ageless,

your support and friendship is something which I value greatly. Thank you all

for giving me this warm collective hug .Gracias a todos

My mother at 17 saying come on world I am ready for anything.

song

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updated Sep 25, 2013
edited by ray76
posted by ray76
She's so beautiful, Ray. What a great picture! - sanlee, May 25, 2013
She was one of my dads Flamenco partners until she danced the opposition away. Thanks Sandy. - ray76, May 25, 2013
Hi Ray - ian-hill, May 25, 2013
Beutiful photo. Good words. Keep going. - annierats, May 25, 2013
It's good to have you back Raimundo...your Mom is lovely...very smart dancer as well :-) - 0095ca4c, May 25, 2013
Gracias a todos mis amigos. You have all brought me out of a dark place into the light , thanks mates , and I guess there is a song there also Margherite , if not there should be, i will write it. - ray76, May 26, 2013
Hello Ray, I am so sorry to hear about your Mom. I personally know how difficult this experience is. But we both know that our Mom's are in a better place! - Rolest, May 27, 2013
Yes Rolest , thank you , you have no idea how happy I am to see that famous name on a post once more , take care old mate . - ray76, May 27, 2013
Thank you for sharing Ray, I love you mate. God bless you, your family and your Mother. ¡Amor y paz! - EL_MAG0, May 27, 2013
If you were once Amor y paz, I hope your mom OK , Thanks mate that was a great thought. - ray76, May 28, 2013
:( - 0080b918, May 28, 2013
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Lo siento Ray, lo siento.

Me gustaría enviarte algunas flores por el entierro, si este estuviera posible. Como no es posible, te mando un paisaje inglés, muy verde.

Que en paz descanse.

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updated Sep 25, 2013
edited by annierats
posted by annierats
Gracias hermanita, siempre eres aquí para mi . - ray76, May 26, 2013
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I am sad to hear this. You mean so much to us at SD. You will be in my prayers as well. I'm going to act like anything I say will make you feel better, but just know we are all here for you!

Have some flowers!!

updated Sep 25, 2013
posted by jessicamccall117
Every word that is spoken here has an impact upon the psyche , the power of all this emotion is beneficial for all ,it has been a great help and a comfort to me and all my family , thank you so much . - ray76, May 26, 2013
It is really the least I can do. I lost my grandmother a few months back, I was her caregiver and she meant so much to me. - jessicamccall117, May 29, 2013
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Te envío mi más sentido pésame por tu pérdida, Ray.

updated Sep 25, 2013
posted by Maldito23
Gacias mi amigo , tus palabras son un gran consuelo para mí. - ray76, May 26, 2013
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May you be comforted in the sorrow by the depths of her love & the memories you share.

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updated Sep 25, 2013
posted by katydew
If memories be the seat of love , then i shall be sitting on a throne ere all can see and wonder . Ray Anthony May 26 2013. Thanks mate. - ray76, May 26, 2013
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Dear Ray, I hope you find comfort in this: Do not stand at my grave and weep I am not there; I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow, I am the diamond glints on snow, I am the sun on ripened grain, I am the gentle autumn rain. When you awaken in the morning's hush, I am the swift uplifting rush Of quiet birds in circled flight. I am the soft stars that shine at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry, I am not there; I did not die. mary elizabeth frye - 1932

updated Nov 6, 2013
posted by pmikan-pam
Thank you for reminding me , it has always been one of my favourites, I have Kathryn Jenkins singing it , it is brilliant . - ray76, Jul 2, 2013
Would anyone be willing to translate this lovely poem into Spanish for me. My boss has just lost her mother who was born in Spain. She was the only person in my boss' life who she could speak "true" spanish with. I would love to give her this poem tran - Sarajo75, Nov 6, 2013
i would love to give her this poem translated into Spanish, but unfortunately, I do not speak Spanish fluently enough to translate it properly myself. Any help is so appreciated. - Sarajo75, Nov 6, 2013
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Hello mate, I may have missed too much but I certainly can not miss out on this. My heart has always been with all my friends. I wish you comfort after you have well mourned and during your times of mourning remember all the good things. I changed my username and it's times like these I wish I really had that magic wand. Take care Ray ¡Amor y paz!

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updated Sep 25, 2013
edited by EL_MAG0
posted by EL_MAG0
Saludos amor. - annierats, May 27, 2013
Saludos Annierats :) - EL_MAG0, May 28, 2013
I knew it was you mate , I could feel it in my bones , i left a message but it got wiped on the 15 minutes bizzo. So glad you have returned and thanks for the thoughts and words , they mean a lot to me. - ray76, May 28, 2013
Glad I can drop in, hey my messages are enabled again. I did not realize the box was unchecked. TTYL - EL_MAG0, May 29, 2013
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Ray,

We each only have one mother and she's special to us beyond description. How can you thank someone for teaching you your "mother tongue?" How is it no one but Mom knows the right way to make your favorite meal? She's away, but always, always with you.

Here's a poem to ease your grief.

Un gran abrazo,

Joyce

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I cannot say, and I will not say

That she is dead, she is just away!

With a Cheery Smile and a wave of the hand

She has wandered into an unknown land.

And left us dreaming how very fair

It needs must be since she lingers there,

And you - oh you, who the wildest yearn

For the old-time step and the glad return.

Think of her fairing on, as dear

In the love of there, as the love of here,

Think of her still as the same, I say.

she is not dead - she is just away.

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updated Sep 25, 2013
edited by JoyceM
posted by JoyceM
That is so beautiful dear JoyceM , gives a lot of comfort.. - ray76, May 27, 2013
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Hi Ray, you have been blessed. You're very lucky to have spent almost 80 years with your mom. I envy you for that.

I see death as a celebration of life. I guess she just boarded the train earlier than the rest of us. I wish her a safe and pleasant journey. ^^

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updated Sep 25, 2013
edited by cheskasullivan
posted by cheskasullivan
You are correct I do count my blessings and cherish every moment. Thanks mate. - ray76, May 26, 2013
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My sincerest condolences, Ray, are extended to you and yours as you navigate around and through this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers shall be with you!

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updated Sep 25, 2013
posted by bandit51jd
Thank you friend , I know you care. - ray76, May 26, 2013
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Hello mate - you already know how I feel and I know how much your mum meant to you.

Let's talk soon amigo.

May I post the picture I have of her here?

Thank you Ray - here she is.

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updated Sep 25, 2013
edited by ian-hill
posted by ian-hill
Of course you can mate. and thanks a lot. - ray76, May 25, 2013
I can hear her laughing like a drain at all this attention , she would love it I know. - ray76, May 26, 2013
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Sorry to be very late ,I' v just been notified , really I am so sorry for you Ray , I hope she found peace and comfort among the angels in heaven . The only thing we can make now is praying to the relief of her soul , please God take care of her Amen . My heartfelt condolences to you Mate. enter image description here

updated Sep 25, 2013
edited by shish75
posted by shish75
Thanks mate, so glad to see you , I hope that you and your family are safe and well. - ray76, May 28, 2013
God bless you mate , thanks a lot !:). - shish75, May 29, 2013
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Ah, dear Ray, so sorry to read this sad news about your mother.
It must be so hard for you to lose the one person who has always been there for you and with you.I hope you will find strength in lots of beautiful memories.
I will burn a candle for your mother! Take heart, dear friend, I really hope you will find that inner strength to get you through this sad and difficult time. You have my very deepest and sincere sympathy,

Marijke
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updated Sep 25, 2013
posted by mcl020
That is so gratifying , thank you dear friend. - ray76, May 26, 2013
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Mis mas sentidas condolencias.

updated Sep 25, 2013
posted by chellapadua
Esta es muy gratificante por mi , gracias amigo. - ray76, May 26, 2013
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Mi sentido pésame, Ray.

updated Sep 25, 2013
posted by chileno
Gracias tus palabras son bienvenido mi amigo. - ray76, May 26, 2013