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Posts and Comments--Be nice, kind, and considerate

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I've seen a few posts and comments lately that not only violate the # 1 SpanishDict Rule to "Be nice and treat everyone on the forum with respect," it violates the Golden Rule of "Treat others how you wish to be treated" by insulting fellow members and causing unnecessary disharmony on the forum.

Before you post a topic or comment T H I N K and ask yourself if your words may:

  • Hurt another SD member's feelings by targeting or insulting any group in particular, e.g., Americans (White, Black, or Hispanic), overweight/underweight people, handicapped/disabled, etc.

  • Discourage new members from posting in the future.

  • Cause disharmony and damage good will between long-time members.

  • Anger or increase tension on the forum.

Instead, be considerate and post threads and comments that:

  • Answer the question at hand

  • Are used to give guidance or assistance

  • Are patient, kind, and thoughtful

  • Seek to make the forum a better place where we can all feel comfortable.

Thank you for your attention. I wish ´peace and love to all my SD friends

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updated Jun 21, 2012
posted by --Mariana--
Well said. I couldn't have put it better myself, hehe. - Eddy, Jun 6, 2012
Thank you Mariana! - pmikan-pam, Jun 6, 2012
Thank you, Eddy, It's great to see you mi amor. Thank you, Pam! - --Mariana--, Jun 7, 2012

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I second that! Good post. smile)

updated Jun 23, 2012
posted by Noetol
Hola Noetol, you are one of the good guys on SD. I always enjoy your posts and comments. - Nilda-Ballardo, Jun 6, 2012
Gracias, amigo. - --Mariana--, Jun 7, 2012
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He who slings mud generally loses ground.

El que el barro hondas en general, pierde terreno.

updated Jun 21, 2012
posted by taraqueen15
Nice saying! :)) - Noetol, Jun 6, 2012
¡¡¡exactly right!!!...mud is for bricks to build with & examples of cultural correectness are abundant here. - HowardO, Jun 6, 2012
Nice! - --Mariana--, Jun 7, 2012
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A Spanish Philosopher Gracian, Baltasar said :

Respect yourself if you would have others respect you.

Thanks Mariana.

updated Jun 16, 2012
posted by shish75
sage words that never go out of style or context!!!!!!!!!! - HowardO, Jun 6, 2012
Good quote. - --Mariana--, Jun 7, 2012
Thanks Howardo & Mariana !! - shish75, Jun 7, 2012
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Thank you Mariana for your post. I agree with you 100%.

It's okay to disagree with an answer given by another member, but it should be done tactfully, so as not to injure someones self-esteem.

We are all learning and we can only help each other if we show respect for all the answers that are given.

For the most part, I only answer a few of the game questions and the moderators that correct my Spanish do it graciously. They motivate me to do study more and to do my research before I respond. I can't thank them enough.

Again, thank you Mariana for the reminder.

updated Jun 16, 2012
posted by Nilda-Ballardo
Yes, showing respect is key. - --Mariana--, Jun 7, 2012
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Thanks for this post! Awesome post, this will surely encourage the new comers, because when I was new over here , I also felt a little uncomfortable, but after observing that the users of this site are awesome and very kind, I became comfortable to this forumsmile Thanks Marianasmile

updated Jun 7, 2012
posted by ZAYESHA
This is my personal experience:) - ZAYESHA, Jun 6, 2012
Thanks, Zayesha. I'm so glad that you are comfortable here! - --Mariana--, Jun 6, 2012
You are always very sweet Zayesha! - Nilda-Ballardo, Jun 6, 2012
Gracias - ZAYESHA, Jun 7, 2012
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Hello Mariana, thanks for this post. I completely agree with you. This site should be a place where everyone feels comfortable and welcome.

updated Jun 7, 2012
posted by iana01
I agree completely, Iana! :)) - Noetol, Jun 6, 2012
Thank you, Noetol! - iana01, Jun 6, 2012
Hola iana. You always make me feel comfortable. - Nilda-Ballardo, Jun 6, 2012
Thankks, Iana. - --Mariana--, Jun 7, 2012
Hola Nilda, muchísimas gracias. :) - iana01, Jun 7, 2012
Con mucho gusto, Mariana. You are right about everything in your post. :) - iana01, Jun 7, 2012
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Thanks Mariana. It's not an enjoyable experience when others mock you, tease you, or put you down, especially on the internet because they don't know you very well! Hopefully all the members of this site will read this.

updated Jun 7, 2012
posted by 0066cfd7
I hear you Henrietta. I agree. It's awful when you hear unpleasant remarks about ethnicity or the lifestyle one chooses to lead. I accept everyone as a unique individual. What a boring place this world would be if everyone were forced to be identical! - 0095ca4c, Jun 6, 2012
Ya. I may not agree with someone, but they are still people with feelings. - 0066cfd7, Jun 6, 2012
You're right Henrietta. Having someone treat me badly would keep me from ever asking or answering a question. - Nilda-Ballardo, Jun 6, 2012
Henrietta , i never mock , but i do often try to have fun , so please do not take offence if I am being a bit silly , the joke is on me and not on you. - ray76, Jun 7, 2012
Great point, Henrietta. - --Mariana--, Jun 7, 2012
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Great post Mariana. Please all members try not to say anything that you would not

like said back to you , be courteous and give out your votes freely , they cost you

nothing but do give encouragement , especially to newbies . All of us love to be

thanked and appreciated , so spread your praise as thick as butter , and we can all laugh

like drains.smile smile smile

updated Jun 16, 2012
posted by ray76
Aww...I love that--spread your praise as thick as butter. - --Mariana--, Jun 7, 2012
Bien dicho amigo. ;) - shama807, Jun 7, 2012
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Estoy completamente de acuerdo contigo. Apoyo la entrada.

updated Jun 7, 2012
posted by miliard
Thanks for the support. - --Mariana--, Jun 7, 2012
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De acuerdo contigo Mariana!

Good post!!!!smile

updated Jun 7, 2012
edited by Jraider
posted by Jraider
Thanks, Jraider. - --Mariana--, Jun 7, 2012
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Muchas gracias por tus palabras. Muy bien dicho.

updated Jun 16, 2012
edited by bandit51jd
posted by bandit51jd
Por favor, corrija mi español. - bandit51jd, Jun 6, 2012
"...gracias por tus ...." Thanks, Jayne. - --Mariana--, Jun 7, 2012
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Thank you Mariana. Very well said!

updated Jun 16, 2012
posted by rac1
Thanks for your support. - --Mariana--, Jun 7, 2012
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Great post Mariana! Thank you for mentioning this as I have noticed a few less than kind comments throughout this section. This is a great site and full of many kind and helpful people trying to learn Spanish in a constructive environment!

updated Jun 7, 2012
posted by RichSean1725
I agree...we have many kind and helpful people! - --Mariana--, Jun 7, 2012
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Just wanted to further mention that anyone who feels disrespected or uncomfortable about any post or comment on SD to please contact a Moderator of your choice immediately or you can send a message directly to the Big Boss, Martha.

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updated Jun 8, 2012
posted by --Mariana--
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Great post Marianna!Wow..It is very interesting and i admire it.Your english are perfect.

Thanks for your vote and your correction to mine post :The best places in Spain.

updated Jun 16, 2012
edited by maria2020
posted by maria2020