How can I be less nervous to speak spanish?
I study a fair amount of spanish and I am fairly good at listening, but when it comes time to speak I choke up, words don't come to mind, and I get nervous. Has anyone had this problem how can I overcome?
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This is not the advice your doctor would give you, but I did it by having a few drinks before engaging foreigners... and it worked. I suggest you try other alternatives first, though.
I don't think you should turn to liquor before speaking Spanish. 
First of all, you have to realize and accept that you're going to make mistakes. If you stand there trying to perfect every sentence before it comes out of your mouth, then the conversation is going to be reallllly long and reallllly boring.
Second, remember that Spanish natives are always happy to help learners! Don't hesitate to ask for help if you need it or if you have the opportunity to do so.
Third, be confident. You've gotten advanced enough to be able to start conversations, so you must be doing something right! Just remember, you're talking to a friend, so be comfortable and confident. Just think of it as talking to someone in your native language, but with a little twist.
Every person whose ever learned a language has felt a little uncomfortable speaking that new language. You aren't alone, so you shouldn't feel ashamed.
You can't let your nerves get in the way of your learning! You can do this!
As mentioned before:
If you do feel uncomfortable, try joining in the Skype Chats the lovely Heidita hosts. If you have a Skype account, PM Heidita with your username, and then be sure to check the forum often for a Skype chat being organized. I think they are on Saturdays...
And when the bad days happen (and they will, don't kid yourself ), feel free to vent at our Encouragement Island.
Come and join every one else who feels the same on Encouragement Island.
Of course there is always Skype. Welcome to the form.
My suggestion is to jump in feet first. If you feel up to speed and comprehend the conversation going on around you, you are already a leg-up.
See if you can pepper the chat with small statements of agreement or disagreement. There's no need to speak in poetry just yet. Be bold. Feel free to imitate others initially. Friends of mine made fun of me for a while, calling me a parrot for repeating what I heard. It didn't matter. I grew a lot from mimicking others.
You will be humbled from time to time when you speak up, but the rewards outweigh the consequences.
take some lessons on Skype there are 100s of companies out there offering the service.
