How to understand Bolivian spanish.

Question

I was very upset with my Bolivian boyfriend because he did not return my affection. We had been dating for 8 months and having very good sex but then one night he was not interested and would not kiss me back. This hurt me very much and I was crying. This is what he wrote to me. I do not understand what he is trying to say even when I translate it in english.

"espero que ya tu estes bien y mas tranquila, yo estoy preocupado por ti por lo que paso. espero que todo vuelva a la normalidad contigo, mira que te haces extranar. tu eres muy buena conmigo y eso me gusta de ti. en la vida hay cosas que no comprendemos hasta no experimentar,dejemos que el tiempo lo dira por nosotros de acuerdo! ya te seguire escribiendo"

Answer 1

Ok, he broke up with you, I'm sorry.

Oh no! She accepted this answer and it's not true! That's hilarious but awful! - rabbitwho, May 26, 2011

Eso de "dejémos que el tiempo decida por nosotros" es una frase para decir que por el momento ya no quieres nada con esa persona y tal vez en un futuro se vuelvan a reunir. - fjfuentesh, May 26, 2011

Answer 2

You should break up with anyone who doesn't use proper punctuation, accents and capital letters.

Answer 3

I'd say that at this point he wants to just be 'friends'. You should move on because if he just wants to wait and see what happens, you may be waiting around for nothing!

Answer 4

You don't say where you are from Kristen or where you are.

I live in Bolivia and a commitment here means taking on the whole family.

Maybe that scares him - and it should be something you consider very carefully.

Have you met his famiy / has he met yours?

Maybe he is not ready for that. Seems to me he is backing out.

I lives in Seattle. My boyfriend has met my family and this is no problem. I just got very upset and was crying a lot the next day when he stop by. How can I talk to you further. Do you have an email? - kristen5231, May 26, 2011

Answer 5

I hope you are ok and more at ease, I am worried about you because of what happened. I hope that everything goes back to normal with you, (you make yourself to be missed) ((hard to translate at this moment )) You are very good with me and that;s what I like about you. In life there are thing that we do not understand until we experience them. Let's time say what will happen with us, OK? I will continue writing you.

Answer 6

He wants to kiss and makeup.

Thank you. I just got another answer that said Ok, he broke up with you? I do not understand which answer is correct - kristen5231, May 26, 2011

The breaking up. But he want to keep in contact with you, but maybe he doesn´t want to be your boyfriend. - BellaMargarita, May 26, 2011