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Why do most women not say their real age?

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¿Por qué la mayoría de las mujeres no dicen su verdadera edad? What do you think? Correct my grammar please smile

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updated May 19, 2011
edited by 00494d19
posted by 00a4c226
Your title "Why do most women not tell their age?" - Sabor, May 18, 2011
Thank you! - 00a4c226, May 18, 2011
fixed title - 00494d19, May 18, 2011
Thank you Heidita. I forgot to do it! - 00a4c226, May 18, 2011

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Because it reminds them of how old they are? Or that they're getting older? I don't know, haha. It doesn't bother me (yet)... I don't know how I'll feel about it later, lol. Also, maybe they don't want to see the person have a look of disbelief on their face (which can be good or bad... "You're kidding" can be taken 2 ways wink ).

updated May 19, 2011
posted by Goldie_Miel
...a look of disbelief on their face...I like that! Very useful. - 00a4c226, May 18, 2011
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Honestly, it's an old tradition that is absolutely senseless to me because it's sexist to an extent. It's not proper to ask a women her age, but if she wants to ask yours you should tell her? Of course, men are the ones who get a bad rap for messing with underage women, and then ignored when they say they didn't know... you rarely (if ever) hear of a women in the hot seat situation lol. Anyways, you've inspired me to read up on it, so I'll return with a better response. For now, my opinion is stupied traditional nonsense that has carried over all the way up to this generation as well.

updated May 18, 2011
posted by DJ_Huero
I believe that it is impolite to ask ANYONE how old he/she is; this type of personal question is impertinent, i.e., impolite. - Lector_Constante, May 18, 2011
:) Sometimes you don't know if it's a good idea to ask. Or you assume that the answer is no true... - 00a4c226, May 18, 2011
Just cut them in half and count the rings, I say! :-) - cristalino, May 18, 2011
:) count the rings! I never think about that...Just kidding, no offense :) - 00a4c226, May 18, 2011
@DJ: did you mean to say "steeped" in traditional nonsense as opposed to "stupied?" That's the closest word I could find that conveyed what I think you intended... :) - cristalino, May 18, 2011
Maybe he meant "some stupid traditional nonsense" . - 002067fe, May 18, 2011
Well, it's my American English lol... but Tom is right, I'm calling it stupied traditional nonsense... y'all think I should change it? - DJ_Huero, May 18, 2011
@ Cristalino Not a bad idea... except you'll probably end up in jail. seems like a new lose - lose situation. Incarceration for messing with underage girl or for cutting her in half. ;-P - DJ_Huero, May 18, 2011
Lector, I've read all over, and it seems to be a simple facade that women insist on potraying. I've found no real answer, just lots of opinions, and suprisingly most agree it's ridiculous and it's coming from alot of women too. - DJ_Huero, May 18, 2011
@ Coquito I hear your brother... it's generally just odd, and it's because they make it that way. Lol - DJ_Huero, May 18, 2011
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Why do most women not say their real age?

simply because women are like the precious jewelry and precious jewelry never get old!! that's why there's no use of asking such a question! wink cool smirk smirk tongue wink

updated May 19, 2011
posted by 00b6f46c
ok I got it Lovely! - 00a4c226, May 18, 2011
Some women could possibly be "zircon" or "pyrite"... then what?? :) - cristalino, May 19, 2011
To be sure, as a woman ages, she does not wither, she "matures" ... and zirconia is actually quite prized, pyrites are pretty ... - Lector_Constante, May 19, 2011
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I do not believe this to be true; if there is any legitimate reason to state their age, most women will do so without hesitation. The notion that a woman will not state her true age comes from the relatively raw instances where women refuse to do so - either from vanity, or refusal to answer an impertinent question, or because there is no good reason to divulge that information. As is often the case, it is the very noticeable, attention-getting exceptions that become the general expectation. I do not like to state my age because it sounds like I think I have more experience, knowledge or good sense than anyone younger than me. But if you want to know, I am 69 sliding rapidly uphill to 70. alt text

updated May 18, 2011
posted by Lector_Constante
Bravo. I agree with your whole post. I actualy know more who refuse to say their age than women. - 002067fe, May 18, 2011
more men ?? hmm, creo eso ser correcto?? - Lector_Constante, May 18, 2011
Very interesting! 69 and keep going...You are an inspiration :) - 00a4c226, May 18, 2011
Lol! Lector, thanks for catching that! - 002067fe, May 18, 2011
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We would say, "Why don't most women say what their real age is".

Porque es así, no tengo ningún idea. Recentamente tuve que decir, "Feliz descumpleaños" a mi amiga Maru, porque ella no quiso celebrarlo.

updated May 18, 2011
posted by Jeremias
:) Thank you! - 00a4c226, May 18, 2011
recientemente - babs_irish, May 18, 2011
I'm glad that this site is so multicultural and multiage too :)...Very nice! - 00a4c226, May 18, 2011
Jeremias: "Por qué es así, no tengo ninguna idea. Recientemente tuve que decir..." - 002067fe, May 18, 2011
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Fear of the following.

They are all sitting in God's waiting room getting nearer the door.

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updated May 19, 2011
posted by Eddy
jaja, that was mean :) - Dakie, May 18, 2011
We A L L are! - Gocika, May 18, 2011
Hmmm, I bet they have air conditioning there... it's kind of warm (and getting warmer) were I'm waiting! :) - cristalino, May 19, 2011
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Can't you just tell by looking at this face that she is only 29? wink LOL LOL

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updated May 18, 2011
posted by Nicole-B
Now that's plain wicked, hehe. - Eddy, May 18, 2011
hmmm, that is cruel, poor woman. - 00494d19, May 18, 2011
I have seen this woman interviewed. She thought she was gorgeous....believe it or not. :) - Nicole-B, May 18, 2011
That's Jocelyn Wildenstein, aka 'The Cat Lady'. Believe it or not, she was a cute girl. Amazing how self-esteem works... - Oramasdude, May 18, 2011
Well, beauty is in the eyes of the one doing the looking - Lector_Constante, May 18, 2011
that picture is frightening, now I'm going to have nightmares tonight, but I voted anyways. - amykay, May 18, 2011
You are right Lector, Beauty is inside, and not everybody see it. - 00a4c226, May 18, 2011
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Heidi said:

women ask men their age? Why should we do that?

Well, in the case of one of my crazy aunts, she always says she is looking for a husband who is "rich with one foot in the grave". So I guess in her case, she would have to ask for the age and bank account balance. wink LOL

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updated May 18, 2011
posted by Nicole-B
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Well, I've been counting my birthdays backwards for years - I'm almost 60 now. grin grin

updated May 18, 2011
posted by ian-hill
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I tend to lean toward Tom's assessment of this social phenomenon. Overheard on the boob tube recently was a report that more & more men are having plastic surgery in the attempt to defy aging and its effects... just one excerpt from a website along the same vein:

A new report by the American Society of Plastic Surgeons shows that the number of cosmetic procedures among men in the United States increased by 2% last year, compared with 2009. Men underwent more than 1.1 million cosmetic procedures, including both minimally invasive and surgical procedures, according to the report.

Of course, some of the procedures may be requested by relatively younger men who simply aren't satisfied with how a particular body part may appear to them, but it does tie into the perception that women aren't the only ones who are demonstrably concerned about the way they look and in most cases, on account of their age... just an aside, folks....

updated May 18, 2011
posted by cristalino
We appreciate reading this report. Thank you! I love this forum :) - 00a4c226, May 18, 2011
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I know many men who simply won't reveal that about themselves. In fact, more men than women. The women I know tend to be more casual about age.

updated May 18, 2011
posted by 002067fe
No, kidding, Tom? I would think it was just the opposite... - sanlee, May 18, 2011
Like I said, it's just my experience. But I tend to agree with LectorConst...I think it's a perception fueled by people focusing on isolated instances and those instances becoming the accepted "fact". - 002067fe, May 18, 2011
Definently something, interesting but, regional. =) - DJ_Huero, May 18, 2011
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Some women like to maintain a little mystery about them., but I agree that most of them will tell their age for a legitimate reason. It is generally thought to be in poor taste to ask a woman's age. This year, in Spanish class, instead of asking ¿Cuántos años tienes? the teacher asked ¿Cuál es la fecha de su cumpleaños?, which I think was much better and avoided any problems that people might have had with saying their real age. At the final exam, however, he did ask everyone their age, and did appear to be shocked with some of the answers.

updated May 18, 2011
posted by sanlee
Hi Sanlee! Thank you for sharing that :) very funny! - 00a4c226, May 18, 2011
Some of the students actually choked ..it was so funny! - sanlee, May 18, 2011
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or because there is no good reason to divulge that information.

I think this is the best reason given so far.

but if she wants to ask yours you should tell her?

mason, what a silly thing to say ...women ask men their age? Why should we do that? big surprise

updated May 18, 2011
posted by 00494d19
To see when they will qualify for a pension. :) - ian-hill, May 18, 2011
jeje, que malo - 00494d19, May 18, 2011
Now I show my age (again); it is bad manners to ask such personal questions, why be rude? - Lector_Constante, May 18, 2011
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When my grandfather died my poor father discovered for the first time that my grandfather had lied his entire life and said that he was one year younger than he really was.

No idea how to say that in Spanish but I'll try:

Cuando mi abuelo murió, mi padre pobre descubierto por la primera vez que mi abuelo mentía toda su vida y decía que tenia un año menos de la verdad.

updated May 18, 2011
posted by rabbitwho
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I stick to one and the same number for years. That's when I stopped counting. And the way I feel my age is wink

updated May 18, 2011
posted by Gocika