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mi mujer vs mi esposa

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my husband from mexico introduced me as mi mujer and not esposa. did he call me his wife or his woman? he better have called me his wife!!!help me translate.

if my husband introduces me as mi mujer-is he calling me his wife or his woman(like a girlfriend?)___________________ i thought esposa means wife in spanish? y or n

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updated Oct 9, 2016
edited by 00494d19
posted by sandrareinert
Pleaser remember that correct spelling and capitalization are mandatory on this site, welcome to the forum:) - 00494d19, May 3, 2011
i didn't know i was being graded.soooo sory-oh,sorry! :) - sandrareinert, May 3, 2011

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I would say it's a loving humor. Mujer means woman, but in this statement, he is obviously showing commitment to you. Just like you could say he is your Hombre (man). grin

updated May 3, 2011
posted by DJ_Huero
well that makes it a lot better.and sweeter!thanks. - sandrareinert, May 3, 2011
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I can only speak of México:

"My wife" is understood as the female that married a man.

"Mi mujer" is understood in our country as the female that fullfills the husband

I prefer to be called "mi mujer" by my husband instead of my wife, because wife only expresses the tie beetween us, however "mi mujer"encompasses the sensual part of the relationship.

But of course, this a matter of culture.

updated Oct 9, 2016
edited by Agora
posted by Agora
What if I used both...."Mi esposa y mi mujer"; would that sound wierd? Is that like "My wife and my lover"? - RobC, Oct 9, 2016
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"I tend to call my wife "mi señora". She'd rather I said "mi esposa". She says that "mi señora" sounds antiquated, and therefore I make her feel older when I say that! "

I agree Gekko, esposa sounds so generic and formal. I mean, I would say, "hey homie or bro, this is my spouse", grammatically there's nothing wrong with it, however socially, you'd look stupid. tongue wink Hopefully this example puts it into perspective for some Spanish learners.

updated May 3, 2011
posted by DJ_Huero
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I am going to agree with DJ, that the term is normally used in a fun, loving and protective way. I would guess is is quite proud of you.

updated May 3, 2011
posted by pacofinkler
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Just a note: If he calls you Mi querida You should worry All the other words (esposa, mujer, Señora) estan bién.

updated May 3, 2011
posted by marilo63
Why querida? That's kind of like, my sweetheart/desire.... jaja regional thing maybe? - DJ_Huero, May 3, 2011
"Mi querida" without adding something else, means adultery. But "mi querida mujer" or "mi querida esposa" or else, is sweet. - Agora, May 3, 2011
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MUjer and esposa in this context are the same thing, he was calling you my wife.

Please use correct spelling on this site, thankswink

updated May 3, 2011
posted by 00494d19
Heidita.... MUjer....? Todos cometemos errores de vez en cuando! ;) - marilo63, May 3, 2011
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I tend to call my wife "mi señora". She'd rather I said "mi esposa". She says that "mi señora" sounds antiquated, and therefore I make her feel older when I say that! grin

updated May 3, 2011
posted by Gekkosan
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Even in English, there's more than one respectful word for wife. Maybe mate, spouse, etc... So it isn't surprising that "esposa" was not the only choice in Spanish.

updated May 3, 2011
posted by pesta
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Mi mujer. Mi señora. Mi esposa. Are all correct but the last two are more appropriate (formal)

I will never use Mi hombre so..... only Mi esposo.

updated May 3, 2011
edited by marilo63
posted by marilo63
I'm sure you mean "mi", without the accent. - Azabache, May 3, 2011
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Oh my, looks like your husband has made an error in judgment.

Not by calling you "mi mujer", though, as you can check that it (also) means "my wife" by consulting any dictionary, including the one on this site.

updated May 3, 2011
posted by Vikingo
How did he make an error than? Lol, I hate cliffhangers... ;-) - DJ_Huero, May 3, 2011
It is not an error, in México, saying "mi mujer" instead of "mi wife" is more intense and sexy. - Agora, May 3, 2011
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Yes, esposa means wife but mujer can also mean "wife".

wink

updated May 3, 2011
edited by Azabache
posted by Azabache
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I watch a Spanish soap opera. Husband & wife = marido & mujer most of the time. Chill.

updated May 3, 2011
posted by Sabor