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:::updated::: Losing part of your family, my baby cat has died:(

:::updated::: Losing part of your family, my baby cat has died:(

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This was going to be a party, I just returned from Tenerife and dived and seem to be getting some photos and all....but I entered the flat and Rufino was missing....my baby cat, he was only 7.

This sense of loss and crying my eyes out can only be understood by animal owners. Animals become part of your family and I don't think you can understand the deep sorrow you feel when this part of your family dies, and if you are not there to hold the baby ....that is even worse.

As it appears he got struck and smashed by a door...we don't really know. He died in pain and his mum was not there to hold him. I am so sad.

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This was Rufino, my big black cat is screaming, he does not understand. Neither do I.

I decided to get moving, I could not bear my blacky's screams....so I found him a tiny baby bro in record time, his name is Celestinosmile He sniffed him and decided not even to hiss at the tiny fellow, both are happysmile

Meet Celestino:

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updated Apr 27, 2011
edited by 00494d19
posted by 00494d19
ahhh..Isn't Celestino cute? - pintor, Apr 24, 2011
Bonito ;) Muy bien heidita :) - EL_MAG0, Apr 24, 2011
¡Qué lindo! Welcome Celestino! :) - cogumela, Apr 24, 2011
aww cute! - 00b6f46c, Apr 24, 2011
celestino - That's good news ! - Fidalgo, Apr 24, 2011
Oh my goodness! He's adorable! Wow! that was quick! Glad your other cat is Ok with the new family member! Congrats! - Gillygaloo, Apr 24, 2011
That's wonderful Heidita, kittens are so cute. - Yeser007, Apr 24, 2011
Heidi I felt your pain even more intensely when I read how your cat died in pian but I share your joy too of gaining a new cat isn't he soooo cute! :) - FELIZ77, Apr 24, 2011
¡Bienvenido! - Sabor, Apr 24, 2011

45 Answers

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I'm sorry for your loss Heidi. I have two cats and though they drive me, personally, up a wall they have become a fixture within my home. I actually look forward to them coming up to me in the mornings before work, purring, and then going about their little prissy ways with their tails in the air. smile Cats do what they want when they want to do it. I hope all is starting to settle down for you and if it hasn't it will, I'm sure.

updated Apr 27, 2011
posted by Jason7R
gracias jason, tienes razón , hacen lo que quieren, pero rufino era tan miedoso.... - 00494d19, Apr 23, 2011
(: - leenearene3, Apr 24, 2011
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¡Qué triste! I'm so sorry to hear your sad news Heidi :(

When you're used to hearing purring and suddenly it's gone, it's hard to silence the blaring sound of sadness. ~Missy Altijd

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updated Apr 24, 2011
posted by Kiwi-Girl
ahí es donde siempre se sentaba...:( - 00494d19, Apr 23, 2011
I know, I've had a couple of those cats too aren't they great, and smart, no way you can ignore them if they sit there lol :) - Kiwi-Girl, Apr 23, 2011
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Heidi, I'm really sorry for your loss, I felt that pain once and I know how much it hurts :(

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updated Apr 25, 2011
edited by 00b6f46c
posted by 00b6f46c
We say loss, in this context Lovely. ... :( - EL_MAG0, Apr 23, 2011
Thank you amor. - 00b6f46c, Apr 23, 2011
gracias amiga, es seguro que se pasará.... - 00494d19, Apr 23, 2011
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Oh, honey, we are all so very sorry for your tremendous loss. You baby kitty will be very missed and now will be playing in kitty heaven.

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updated Apr 25, 2011
posted by --Mariana--
Awww, Mariana, what a sweet little picture! - Gillygaloo, Apr 23, 2011
gracias amiga, seguro que un gato tan bueno tiene que estar en el cielo... - 00494d19, Apr 23, 2011
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I'm so sorry to hear this, I've lost a few pets over the years, and it is a heart-wrenching experience. I wish you well and hope that your heart heals.

updated Apr 25, 2011
posted by Fredbong
thank you freddy - 00494d19, Apr 23, 2011
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Lo siento mucho, Heidi.

updated Apr 25, 2011
posted by galsally
gracias sally - 00494d19, Apr 23, 2011
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I am so sorry for your loss. I have cried for cats and dogs but I am so glad I was privileged to have their company over the years

updated Apr 25, 2011
posted by Sabor
Just the way I feel.....I am looking for a mate for big blacky right as I am writing.... - 00494d19, Apr 23, 2011
Yes, Heidi, that is a good idea. - sanlee, Apr 23, 2011
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I know how it feels. I know you can't grade deaths but immediate ones are most harrowing. I lost my favourite black oldie this winter. Lo siento mucho por tu perdida :(

updated Apr 25, 2011
posted by bomberapolaca
gracias bombera - 00494d19, Apr 23, 2011
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Heidi,

I am so so sorry to hear about your loss - I know people will say it's just a cat, or it's just a dog, but it really does take a pet owner to understand how much they become part of your family, and your day-to-day routine....and they really to cease being pets.

I really dread the day that either of my dogs go....I'm already sad for that day....

My thoughts are with you....

updated Apr 25, 2011
posted by 001a2987
gracias chris, I know you have dogs and understand, like all those writing here... - 00494d19, Apr 23, 2011
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I'm so sorry to hear this, Heidi downer. This is so sad :(.

A pet is such a special friend and they really have a way of burying themselves into your heart and when they leave they leave an emptiness behind.

:::Hugs:::

updated Apr 25, 2011
posted by --Jen--
Yes they do :) - EL_MAG0, Apr 23, 2011
gracias cielo, ya sé que tienes perros, es duro perder un animal - 00494d19, Apr 23, 2011
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Heidi

Sorry to hear about the loss of one of your beloved pets. I know how you feel though as my avatar photo is of our "Sammy" whom we lost last year.

updated Apr 24, 2011
posted by Eddy
thank you eddy - 00494d19, Apr 23, 2011
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You already know how sorry I am to hear about it Heidi. As a pet owner I know the pain. I may not be a cat person but I feel for him anyway, no animal deserves pain. Hang in there.

updated Apr 24, 2011
posted by Yeser007
gracias gary, fue el bebé de la casa - 00494d19, Apr 23, 2011
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I decided to get moving, I could not bear my blacky's screams....so I found him a tiny baby bro in record time, his name is Celestinosmile He sniffed him and decided not even to hiss at the tiny fellow, both are happysmile

Meet Celestino:

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updated Apr 24, 2011
posted by 00494d19
Hm... Cute, but he reminds me of Mr. K, the infamous shooting kitten! :-0 - Gekkosan, Apr 24, 2011
He is adorable! - sanlee, Apr 24, 2011
¡Celestino, bienvenido al foro! I'm sure we'll be hearing you on Skype.:) - Yeser007, Apr 24, 2011
My wife just said "You go girl, that's the best way to deal with the loss.":) - Yeser007, Apr 24, 2011
(:Lol, I'm so jealous! He's just too cute! - leenearene3, Apr 24, 2011
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I am very sorry to hear about your loss. Pets become part of our family and we miss them when they are gone.

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updated Apr 24, 2011
edited by Ron_Austin
posted by Ron_Austin
gracais ron, si esos perros son tuyos, son adorables... - 00494d19, Apr 23, 2011
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Oh Heidi, I am so sorry for your loss, and know it hurts so much.

I lost my dog, Buddy, in November. I still call his name when I come back home after being away. There are so many ways I remember him.

Pets that you love are never forgotten. It hurts to lose them, but only because you loved them so much.

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updated Apr 24, 2011
posted by Goyo
What a beautiful dog Goyo I love dogs especially Golden Retrievers and Collies :) - FELIZ77, Apr 23, 2011
Awww... yes, beautiful dog.. sorry for your loss too. - Gillygaloo, Apr 23, 2011
qué triste...justo lo que hice yo, llamaba y llamaba...rufino no llegaba:( - 00494d19, Apr 23, 2011