estar/ser------should it be estoy? o soy?
estar - condition ser - essence
When I say "I'm Happy" I should say "Estoy feliz" right?
but in some site they also say "Soy feliz"
Which one is right? =( ---so confusing!!
4 Answers
If someone is happy in general, or always happy, then soy feliz. Estar for something temporary. Ser for something permanent.
Have a look at this thread. http://www.spanishdict.com/answers/177096/ser-and-estar-song-game#a385230
Soy feliz = I'm a happy person / I'm a happy sort. Happiness is one of your identifying characteristics. Happiness is part of your essence.
Estoy feliz = I'm happy (your current emotional state).
Like all rules, there are exceptions.
As SpanishDict says...
General Ser Rule
Ser is used to classify and identify permanent or lasting attributes. If the general rule isn´t specific enough for you, think of the acronym DOCTOR, which stands for Description, Occupation, Characteristic, Time, Origin, and Relationship.
The "rule" about "ser for permanent" is not a very reliable rule.
You ought to look at the reference article here at SpanishDict, Ser and Estar