how do you say you in spanisH(formally)?
i do not understand what they are telling over here
4 Answers
Usted
Usted is how you say "you" to people that you would call sir or ma'am in English.
La tercera persona no distingue entre formal ni informal. Asi, decir "I do not understand what they (my bosses) are telling me." es igual a "I do not understand what they (my friends) are telling me."
No comprendo que me dicen (ellos).
Se puede dejar el pronombre "ellos" -- pero para decirlo completamente correcto, se debe dejarlo.
The use of the pronoun you in Spanish is not as straight forward as we may think, especially if we consider that we have plural, singular, formal and informal. So how and when do we use you in Spanish? These days the most used form of you in Spanish is tú in singular and vosotros in plural. If it is someone that you just met, an old person, business client etc we use a more formal approach. For this sort of situations we use usted for singular and ustedes for plural, the usage depending on the person youre talking to and/or the circumstances. There is not a rule set in stone for this so, when it is difficult to find the appropriate form of treatment, it is useful to ask: ¿puedo tutearlo ? Meaning, can I treat you with tú?Or say: puedes tutearme (you can treat with tú). In both cases the answer is supposed to be affirmative and from there on the exchange can be done in a friendly way.
There is another friendly form for you in Spanish, vos This form is used in Buenos Aires and some other regions. Its use is equivalent to tú, no more no less respectful. The vos informal is opposed to the formal form Usted. In recent years it has expanded the use of vos as approach friendly and treatment. It is perhaps the most common form used and usted is used to put distance, to mark intentionally hierarchies, show admiration for someone older or highlighting the respectful treatment.
Reed more on my blog http://www.spanish-aid.co.uk/your-blog/