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What are some of the actions or words that we as non Spanish should avoid in Spain or Latin America that would be very offensive. I would like to know prior to a visit.

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updated Dec 3, 2010
edited by --Mariana--
posted by Lucamos
I think you mean non natives :) - FELIZ77, Dec 1, 2010
Any areas in particular in Latin America? It would be best to specify, as there are many different dialects... - malcriada, Dec 1, 2010

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Don't demand the house key after someone tells you "Mi casa es tu casa."

updated Dec 1, 2010
posted by 005faa61
:)))) - Gocika, Dec 1, 2010
jajajaja Buena esa - Dakie, Dec 1, 2010
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Don't wear sweat pants unless you're actually exercising or going to Wal-Mart.

updated Dec 3, 2010
posted by swampy
vote. I wish more people in America would take heed of that one. - amykay, Dec 1, 2010
nice - margaretbl, Dec 1, 2010
From Seinfeld: "Anybody that wears sweat pants has completely given up on life" ~:) - Jack-OBrien, Dec 1, 2010
My son would agree, but I wish I could wear them all the time in winter, with long johns underneath! I love to be comfortable. - galsally, Dec 3, 2010
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The verb coger (look at definition #18) has some very rude connotations in Latin America. Use "tomar" (to take) instead.

Tomo el autobús / tren / un taxi

In Spain, the verb "coger" is perfectly fine and used in everyday speech.

updated Dec 1, 2010
posted by --Mariana--
Coger is fine in Ecuador. - lorenzo9, Dec 1, 2010
I learned "coger" from my friends from PR (the derogatory meaning), so imagine my surprise when my Ecuadorian boyfriend said it to me one day, meaning something completely innocent! - malcriada, Dec 1, 2010
In México we rarely use "coger" for (to take) we use it to say (To f/&%), sorry for that. BUt i think that can be useful - Dakie, Dec 1, 2010
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Hm.. most of what you say as everyday slang in Venezuela is probably offensive in most other Spanish speaking countries. smile And most of what you say particularly in Maracaibo is offensive even in the rest of Venezuela!! cheese

updated Dec 2, 2010
posted by Gekkosan
I was going to say something in Venezuelan but I didn't want to offend anyone. Chévere, pana. - KevinB, Dec 1, 2010
Flag removed and voted on to compensate for the deduction. - Eddy, Dec 2, 2010
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It's offensive to tap the "shave and a haircut two bits" rhythm in Mexico.

updated Dec 22, 2010
edited by alba3
posted by alba3
Wow! :))) - Gocika, Dec 1, 2010
Amazing, alba! - galsally, Dec 3, 2010
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The verb "coger", used widely in Spain to "take", "pick" or "catch" (voy a coger un taxi, for example), is vulgar in Mexico. Use "escoger" or "tomar" instead. (I made this mistake once with a very nice lady who luckily understood what I was trying to say- she told me :"¡Eso NO se dice en México!" It sure was embarrassing, although I will never forget again!) red face

updated Dec 3, 2010
edited by athegr8
posted by athegr8
Also, in Spain I have heard young people exclaim something (very cool or awesome) is "la p*ta madre", however you would never say this in Mexico (it's probably still rude in Spain, too) - athegr8, Dec 1, 2010
Definitely, just some silly kids there. - margaretbl, Dec 1, 2010
what??? - athegr8, Dec 2, 2010
I don't know what happened, but I meant no offense, Storm. Espero que no se haya ofendido :-s - athegr8, Dec 2, 2010
Wrong post, lo siento! - LiveUnsheathed, Dec 3, 2010
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If a non-native makes a mistake the natives are more likely to laugh at him/her than become offended. I can think of a lot of words that are common in some places but rude in others. If you accidentally use one it's not a big deal. Just don't say "fanny" in Australia.

updated Dec 1, 2010
posted by KevinB
Saying you are from America will make them mad - jizzy2k, Dec 1, 2010
Not everywhere, but it's too true in some places. That's why we hold our high school reunions in Miami and Las Vegas instead of Caracas. It's no fun there anymore - KevinB, Dec 1, 2010
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I wouldn't worry too much about that. Tourists can say anything they please around here (Copan Ruinas), and they are simply ignored. After all, how can you take some one seriously, who is here today and gone tomorrow?

updated Dec 2, 2010
posted by Jesss
you've never gone on vacation? sucks to be you - jizzy2k, Dec 1, 2010
You're excusing disrespecting another human being purely on the basis of their visit being short? Do you treat house guests the same way? - LiveUnsheathed, Dec 2, 2010
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Cajeta in Mexico=Dulce de leche. Cajeta in Argentina=offensive Also, Argentinians don't like to be hit or slapped for no reason.

updated Dec 1, 2010
posted by Beatrice-Codder
I agree with the Argentinians (thats for all the "slug-buggers"out there) - Stadt, Dec 1, 2010
Gee, imagine that. No hitting or slapping for no reason. Hmmm. Thin-skinned, are they? :-) - KevinB, Dec 1, 2010
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tonto

updated Dec 1, 2010
posted by sssarah