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This is a very old and forgotten ritual which occured in the middle ages in England. The day before a wedding, the bridesmaids would bake dozens of large thin crusty biscuits. During the wedding ceremony, the bridesmaids proceeded to break these biscuits over the brides head. Now I don't know how or why this ritual ever came about, but from it came that well know phrase, not tonight dear, I have a headache.

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updated Aug 8, 2010
posted by Eddy
:) - LateToDinner, Aug 6, 2010
I am convulsing with laughter!!! lol - Brynleigh, Aug 7, 2010

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In the north of England, one of the oldest inhabitants of the neighborhood would be standing on the threshold of the bride's new home. She would toss a plateful of short-bread over her head, so that it falls outside. Guests scramble for a piece of this short-bread as it is considered very fortunate to get a piece.

I wonder if this is where throwing the bouquet at the reception of a wedding comes from? Interesting Nicole!! smile

updated Aug 7, 2010
posted by Jason7R
It could be. I think I would prefer to be hit by flowers rather than bread or cake! :) - Nicole-B, Aug 6, 2010
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You peaked my interest, so I found these as well.

In the north of England, one of the oldest inhabitants of the neighborhood would be standing on the threshold of the bride's new home. She would toss a plateful of short-bread over her head, so that it falls outside. Guests scramble for a piece of this short-bread as it is considered very fortunate to get a piece.

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In Gloucestershire, in the early eighteenth century, a large cake was broken over the heads of the couple. In Aberdeenshire, barley is thrown over the bridal pair as they enter the feasting-place.

We need to get to the bottom of this bread/cake throwing tradition! wink

updated Aug 7, 2010
posted by Nicole-B
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Are you putting us on, Eddy? jeje

I've heard of breaking bread together, but this sounds over the top.

updated Aug 7, 2010
posted by CalvoViejo
Surely you know me by now, hehe. - Eddy, Aug 6, 2010
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I'm voting for this simply because it's freakin' hilarious!! smile

updated Aug 7, 2010
posted by Jason7R
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Yes Eddy; You are right on! The biscuits were put on the head so the bride would be fruitful; This is the result. lol

Bella singing with cookie on her head Pictures, Images and Photosbebe lindo

updated Aug 7, 2010
edited by Brynleigh
posted by Brynleigh
Good one. - Eddy, Aug 7, 2010
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You are so funny, Eddy!

updated Aug 7, 2010
posted by --Mariana--
I wish my wife thought so, hehe. - Eddy, Aug 7, 2010