I need some encouraging messages from SD members !
Hi everybody , How are you ? I hope you all doing well , I need some encouraging messages from SD members .because I am so sad and frustrated I had a big fight with one of my best friends and I feel so bad right now 
specially that yesterday was the friendship day ,( she and I didn't talk to each other ) so I needed some encouraging message to encourage me to keep studying ,any advice you would give me would be very appreciated 
thanks you 
14 Answers
Lo siento, preciosa. Sé cómo se siente. A veces, simplemente sucede. La amistad es algo que cambia - es como el amor de esa manera. Pero usted es una persona maravillosa y en tu vida, tendrás muchos amigos queridos que se quedan.
I am so sorry, lovely. I know how this feels. Sometimes, It just happens. Friendship is something that changes--it is like love in that way. But you are a wonderful person and in your life, you will have many dear friends who will stay.
Lovely,
You are one of the most helpful, happy, vibrant, encouraging, delightful, pleasant, welcoming and fun people I've ever had the pleasure of "knowing".
Don't let one person get you down, forget your differences, or forget them.
My very best wishes for your happiness, Fontanero.
Love is patient with a life That brings its share of pain. We know sometime there is an end
To the most stubborn rain. We know the sun comes out again On a world that's fresh and new, And all the gifts we freely give Somewhere, sometime accrue.
We know sometimes we have to wait For life to come around And sometimes that it won't, but still There's some good to be found.
And even when things happen that Your soul can hardly bear, Know that I'll (the SD members) be next to you; My (Our) love is always there. ---by Nicholas Gordon---
"My best friend is the one who brings out the best in me." - Henry Ford
You don't have to speak to her for this.
Forgive her then forgive yourself and don’t think about it again, enjoy the good things life has to offer.
“Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment.” Buddha
The only person whose behaviour we can control is ours, lovely.
I would suggest that you give yourself a little time to get over your disapointment with your friend and when you are thinking calmly you can see if you have some responsibility in the argument with your friend. If you can honestly say that your friend is totally at fault then I would give her a chance to make amends if you value her friendship. If she is not willing to do that then I would think it is time to move on to friends that will appreciate and value you as a friend. Perhaps she has something going on in her life that is upsetting her and she needs you. As it has been said, you cannot step in the same river twice'. People change as they grow and perhaps you have out grown her. You are a fun and valued SD member and just remember to keep positive. 
Hola,
Algunas veces las relaciones terminan. No sabemos detalles, pero por algo deben haber discutido. No te preocupes y sigue adelante. El tiempo soluciona todo.
Some times relationships end. We don't know the details, but there was a reason why you had an argument. Don't worry and continue on. Time solves everything.
Miss Lovely, it's very easy for people to say, "don't worry, move on," etc, but this is obviously a major concern for you. If you have a real friendship with this person, the two of you will soon realize that one spat is not worth discarding your friendship and you will resolve it. After all, if you can't have a few tiffs every now and then, how strong is the friendship? I would let it ride for a couple of days and then mend fences. At the moment, it seems bad, but I know it will get better for the both of you. You are obviously a friend worth having!
And by the way, "me and her didn't talk to each other" must be, "she and I......"
Todavia lucha con mi mejor amiga de vez en cuando, y todavia estamos cosados después de 30 años.
I fight with my best friend from time to time, and we are still married after 30 years.
You are a huge asset to this site lovely, we love having you here and all of your fun games you make up! I enjoyed speaking with you on chat the other night! I know I've had fights with friends, it happens from time to time. If you never had fights with family or friends life would not be as full and rich, it just makes the good times even better...
Hang in there, maybe you can patch it up, maybe not, but life goes on, and stay true to who you are!
It is always difficult when good friends fall out -things are said in an arguement which are not intended and are regretted.Your friend probably feels the same as you do . If you wish to mend the friendship then be the first to offer "the olive branch",
I am thinking of the Elton John song -"Sorry Seems To Be The Hardest Word" while writing this.
I've always found the phrase "I'm sorry we have fallen out" can help as it is true and also shares the blame equally.
However if you have been too badly hurt, and wish to move on then remember you have many friends here.
You've got to get yourself together
You've got stuck in a moment and you can't get out of it
Don't say that later will be better now
You're stuck in a moment and you can't get out of it
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And if the night runs over
And if the day won't last
And if our way should falter
Along the stony pass
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And if the night runs over
And if the day won't last
And if your way should falter
Along the stony pass
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It's just a moment
This time will pass
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U2
Lovely, you are always so upbeat, bringing all of these new games and ideas to the forum. Why don't you click on your own questions here and read through a couple of them. You may find it helps you to forget your problem and soon you can work things out with a clear head.
No te angusties por pequeñeces Lovely, this means pretty well the same as 'don't sweat the small stuff'. In a few hours/days/weeks you may not even remember the quarrel. Don't worry. ¡Tranquila! 
Lovely , you are the one that can decide want you want ,study hard and forget about your problem ,you are a great ,creative ,fun and helpful person I am sure that you will find lots of new friends that love you and respect you for your great personalty life is full of problem but the only thing we can learn from those problem is not to give up !
