"Se" o "le/les"

Question

Siento muy incomodo cuando hablo usar "Se" para " Usted / Ustedes / El / Ella " . Quiero saber si es correcta usar "le" para "el" y "usted", "la" para "ella" , "les" para "ustedes/ellos". Quiero usar "se" solo para verbos reflexivos .

Siento mas comodo hablar como esto: Voy a ayudarla - I am going to help her. Voy a hablarle - I am going to talk to him. Va a golpearles - He is going to hit them. Voy a ayudarle - I'm going to help you ( Usted form) Va a herirse - He's going to injure himself.

Estoy correcto usar estos ?

Great job Selwich ! - FELIZ77, Jun 24, 2010

Todos sus ejemplos son correcto como Heidita te dijó - FELIZ77, Jun 24, 2010

Nice work... - kerflop, Jun 24, 2010

Answer 1

You examples don't include two 3rd person object pronouns. There you must use se for " to you, to him or to her, to them" You cannot narrow the use of se to only reflexive uses.

They will give it to her this afternoon.

Se lo darán esta tarde. (a ella)

Send it to her by the end of the week.

Énviaselo [a ella] para el fin de la semana.

Voy a ayudarlo or voy a ayudarle? Some will consider the 2nd a leísmo, some not, but remember where the person who told you that it is correct is from. The leísmo is more acceptable in Spain than anywhere else.

Answer 2

Good job, selwich, all correct

Answer 3

Yo comprendo. Cuando estan un directo objeto y un lo indirecto , debo usar "se" . Por que mucha gente confundiranse entre " La o lo " si digo - " La lo daran esta tarde " o " La Envialo para el fin de la semana "

estoy correcto ?