when do I use estar, and when do I use ser?
When do I use the verb estar, and when do I use the verb ser?
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The following is from the reference article that Jsanthara mentioned:
General Ser Rule
Ser is used to classify and identify permanent or lasting attributes. If the general rule isn´t specific enough for you, think of the acronym DOCTOR, which stands for Description, Occupation, Characteristic, Time, Origin, and Relationship.
General Estar Rule
Estar is used to indicate temporary states and locations. If the general rule doesn´t suffice, think of the acronym PLACE, which stands for Position, Location, Action, Condition, and Emotion.
Ser is used to describe things that are permanent, whereas estar is used to describe things that are temporary and "in the moment". If you would like an in-depth explanation then refer to this reference article.
Ser is used to describe things that are permanent, whereas estar is used to describe things that are temporary and "in the moment".
Among the many "rules" that are frequently offered to explain the difference between "ser" and "estar", this is, probably, the worst. The real problem is that Spanish makes a distinction that is simply not expressed in English (they view things differently). If, for whatever reason, one were required to supply a simple dichotomy, I'd suggest "characteristic"/"condition".
As a next step up from a simple dichotomy, the DOCTOR/PLACE may help. but this is still an attempt to explain the distinction in terms of normal English patterns.Sooner or later you will have to confront the fact that different languages really are different.
You use ser when something doesn't chance. for example, when describing your physical appearance: Soy alto, moreno (i know you can dye your hair but....) Asking the question ¿Cómo es?
You use estar when describing how you're feeling right at that moment for example: Estoy bien and asking the question ¿Cómo estas?
Paralee's tip has stuck with me - " How you feel and where you are, that is when to use estar "!! Hope it helps you.