Problemas Con Amigas
Okay, so I have a friend named Claire. I like her, and she knows it. She also has a boyfriend (guy A). I just recently heard from her boyfriend's best friend(guy B) that guy A has another girl and showed guy B pictures of this other girl naked on his phone. Well, Claire doesn't know about this, and I really care about her. I don't want to see her get hurt, so I want to tell her, and no one else is going to tell her. Problem is, if I do tell her, it might seem like I just want to break them up. Also, since I didn't actually see for myself, she might not find me very credible. What do I do? ¿Que hago?
11 Answers
There is no way for you to get involved without becoming the bad guy somehow. It is best to wait it out. She will get hurt, undoubtedly, the question is whether or not you will be the one to cause her pain. Protip: don't be that guy.
Omg...this cheesy is a real trickster! 
I always loved cheese, so I am all with him on this
yes, or tell a girlfriend of hers...she will then tell her and you will at least not be the "messenger" you know what it is like...they always kill the messenger
Be manipulative and swipe the friends phone and make it just "happen" to magically show up in your girls purse turned on with the photos in question on the display. Be sure to make copies of the pictures, that way even if you don't get the girl in the end you can make a porn site out of the photos and make some money off the experience.
Then after that, write a spanish soap opera about it and sell it to the highest bidding network..
when you need to tell someone something of this nature you have to answer three questions before telling them . (1) Is it the truth . (2) will it be well received. (3) will it be of benefit. If you have three positive answers , then decide the right time to tell them , when you are sure of that , then dont say anything! It will all be then in the past and no one gets hurt.
Don't tell her, and don't feel guilty. She will be hurt either way. You will probably just end up being the "nice" guy that likes her while she stays with the guy that's cheating or finds another jerk. Telling her will also probably put you in the "friend" category as well.
do not say anything to ur girlfriend about the other girl. but i think it will be good if you say ''be careful about ur boyfriend, every guys can cheat his girlfriend, bla bla bla like this and finally she is confused. she always thinks about whether he cheats me or not... so breaking-up process will become faster 
am i a bad person???
Haha and she was mad at me cuz I ended up dating another girl, and things didn't go well, and she said "I'm tired of being everybody's second choice. This time I was his first." It's weird, the things you remember when you're stressed. Oh well, I guess you're right, it'll make me look better for not being an a** to her. Haha she's British too. I like her accent. 
Do nothing. Everything will work out itself. It's always like this, even if you don't want to wait. 
Well this happened with the last girl I mentioned, in a way. My friend told me that her heard my ex was losing interest in me, and I freaked out. It ended up being true. I'm glad he told me because if I hadn't brought it up she would've stayed with me just to not hurt me and I don't want a fake relationship. So... I think I'd wanna be told.
You said she is your friend. What would happen if you were the one who was cheating on? Would you like that "your friend" tell you the truth or you'd forgive her for hiding it?
Just think about that !
Cheers
Julia
I know, but not telling her makes me feel guilty, and knowing that he's doing this to her bothers me a lot.
