I need help with my best friend! (Edited)
I need help for this! What if you like someone and that someone is the boy who she, my best friend likes? I tell her everything, but I would want to know if I should or souln't tell her that. If I do, will she feel jealous and not want to talk to me anymore?So do I tell her about him. Because at firt I liked someone else and I told her that. The boy who she and I like used to sit by me. He is very funny and I thougth I liked him like a friend. Then when our teacher moved all the desks I couln't sit with him anymore. Awhile passed (like one or two weeks)I started missing him then I ralized that I liked him . So I'm still with the questin SHOULD I TELL MY BEST FRIEND THAT I LIKE THAT BOY?
It sounds like you have decided to to pursue the boy, and you are just looking for advice on how to tell your best friend about it.
While I still think that the best approach would be to find another boy to like, if you've already made up your mind, you should tell your friend about it as soon as possible. She'll still be mad, but not as mad as she will be if she hears it from someone else. As for how, exactly, to tell her, you might want a woman's advice on that.
Well, this is a big quandary for you, I can tell. Not knowing any specifics (such as your age, how long you have known your best friend, how long you have known this boy), a general answer is the best I can do. I am going to presume that you are not in your 20's. The mother of my best friend taught me this lesson: never choose a boy over your girlfriend. When we are young, many attractive people come and go in our lives, but it is sure hard to find a good friend. Keep the friend. If "it's meant to be" with the boy, it will all work out in time and you won't lose your girlfriend in the process.
Silvia, I have to agree with Mountaingirl. Hang onto your friend. As my mother-in-law would tell people..."Don't worry about guys, they are like buses. If you miss one, there will be another one passing by in ten minutes. (That is just an old South Philly expression).
Anyway, I think you should distract yourself and focus on Spanish and English. Become excellent at both languages...then we will see what guy can't resist you.
it seems that if you start the relationship and let her find out later, it could cause problems. but in this situation, its the only thesible solution.worst case scenario: you remain mad for a few months, the relationship ends and you set her up on the rebound. happy ending.
Elija tu amistad real sobre un romance potencial. Las buenas amigas duran más que los novios, porque hay tantos chicos, pero sus amigas verdaderos son pocos.
(Choose your real friend over a potential romance. Good friends last longer than boyfriends, because there are so many boys, but true friends are few).
Necesito ayuda para esto! ¿Qué pasa si te gusta alguien y ese alguien es el chico que ella, mi mejor amigo le gusta? Yo le digo todo, pero me gustaría saber si debo o souln't decírselo. Si lo hago, ¿se siente celoso y no quiere hablar conmigo ya?
That's straight off the translator.
Dude this is exactly what Spanish telenovelas are all about. I love this kind of stuff. You should spy on her from behind a tree. That always works on the shows I watch.