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My parents keep saying how they hate having me here because I do so crappy in school. Well, I try hard but I just get C's and B's on stuff. I'm kinda a little bit maybe thinking about running away. What do you think?

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updated Oct 12, 2009
posted by Vince_Peña

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HI Vince, I am a teacher and I can see your parents only want you to do well in life. Good results in school are not essential, after all Einstein used to fail maths...jeje, but there are no parents who really think this:

how they hate having me here

Parents, just like everybody else, get angry at times, and say things they don't mean. never got angry with your best friend and said something like: I wish you were dead!! or I wish you broke a leg!! I mean, we get this here all the time and I suppose neither you nor children here mean it, well , neither do your parents.

Running away is not a good solution, actually no solution at all. Where would you go? Life is hard out there, trust mewink

Just stay with us, we will help you to improve your Spanish at leastsmile

updated Jan 8, 2010
posted by 00494d19
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Ok I guess you guys are right...... I'll try my best. blank stare

updated Oct 12, 2009
posted by Vince_Peña
Of course, vince, good for you:) - 00494d19, Oct 12, 2009
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Alright well I have to go finish up some biology homework. Thanks!grin

updated Oct 12, 2009
posted by Vince_Peña
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updated Oct 12, 2009
edited by Mark-Baker
posted by Mark-Baker
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Tell your parents to shut up. You are doing the best you can. If they want you to do better, tell them to hire a tutor. It's quite unacceptable for them to lower your self-esteem. If you do good in school, you'll get a good job. If you don't, you won't. That is not a reflection of who you are. I live in a nice home. Doesn't make me one bit better than a guy living in the slum. Just luckier. Don't have to dodge bullets, either, but that's another story. wink But it's also quite unacceptable to run from your problems. Don't allow yourself to be beatdown by anyone, including parents. wink

updated Oct 12, 2009
edited by 00494d19
posted by ChamacoMalo
No swearing - 00494d19, Oct 12, 2009
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Go Vince!

updated Oct 12, 2009
posted by nizhoni1
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That's quite right. We all go into periods where we get down and trust me, the urge to run away doesn't stop when you become an adult. Just ask any adult. If they are honest, they will tell the same. But we don't run...we stick and stay. We talk to our friends...we hang in and see it to it's end. I'm proud of you, and sure you will do well. wink

updated Oct 12, 2009
posted by ChamacoMalo
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downer

updated Oct 12, 2009
posted by Vince_Peña
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you're not you can do better you're smarter than this

See sweetie, this shows they actually think highly of youwink If they thought you were stupid they would not bother. and they obviously don¡'t grin

updated Oct 12, 2009
posted by 00494d19
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¿Te hables español?

updated Oct 12, 2009
posted by morphine
Si for the most part I'm fluent. - Vince_Peña, Oct 12, 2009
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Oh yeah, only problem is, I say that I'm doing my best and then they say no you're not you can do better you're smarter than this. And I am smart but I've been struggling lately because I take really advanced classes.

updated Oct 12, 2009
posted by Vince_Peña