How do you add friends.?o.o
This is not a "Social Website" in the same way as say, Facebook or MyPage. It isn't possible to create a cadre or list of "friends".
If you need to write to another member, you need to use the private message system for this website. That means, you go to that person's profile page, click on the "Send Private Message" envelope on the left side of their profile page and write to them in the same way you would send an e-mail. But, it is not an e-mail its a message sent within the Span¡shD!ct community.
I hope that's some help.