Are long tight hugs a sign of liking you?
I'm curious about if a girl gives you a hug that last longer then normal does that mean she likes you? What I mean by that is she normally gives me a quick how you doing hug but last week she gave me a hug that lasted a lot longer and she held me tight, I know because I tried to pull away and she just kept holding on. So what does that mean? Also if a girl tells you that she missed you does that mean she likes you?
Lots of advice here -
I've worked out what you should do.
Tell her that you liked / enjoyed the hug and ask for another one.
It could be a sign that she likes you alot or it could also be that she is feeling insecure because she is going through a difficult time in her life and/or she might be afraid of losing you. I do not know how long you have been together as friends or how close your friendship is /has been up to this point. It is hard to know whether this hug was to show affection towards you or because she was needing to receive affection or possibly both!
We could all offer suggestions for why we think she has given you a longer hug but the only one sure way of knowing without doubt the reason why she did is to ask her! It is important that you do ask her so that you do not read more into the expression of affection or friendship than she meant by her action.
You have to avoid two extremes: either reading too much into it and risk ruining a good friendship or misreading it and missing the signs she is giving you that she likes you more than you realized. Just ask her and avoid misreading this clue
I hope this helps
Here's a sure shot way to find out, let her give you one those long hugs, and squeeze (or pinch) her booty (whatever your preference may be). If she giggles and hugs you more, you're in the clear and she's yours... and, if you she slaps the crap out of you and walks away... well, I think that answer is obvious.
Does she ever light a match, then blow it out, then hold it while looking at you? Because if not, I'm sorry, she only likes you as a friend.
I hope I don't get into trouble for posting this....
She could either like your or just appreciate you as a very good friend. It depends whether or not she says and does other things that may indicate that she likes you.
I have a guy best friend who gets a hug when we meet up but I might hug him a little longer if we had a long conversation discussing whatever is bothering either of us. It just means I appreciate him as a true friend. There is no flirting involved whatsoever.
If you love it, let it go . . . if it is meant to be, it will return . . . if it doesn't come back . . . then hunt it down and kill it! (Only kidding!)
Word of caution..
Don't abuse a good friendship by just assuming it's something different without asking.
I had a friend who I always hugged goodbye and kissed on the cheek (a friend who isn't English, evidently lol). I was happy to be friends with him, although we were not as close as you and your friend appear to be.
Out of the blue one day, whilst saying goodbye, he tried to take the hug and kiss further. It was a horrible situation to be put in, if he had been a complete stranger I'd have told him where to get off in strong terms, but being a friend I had to do this stupid mix between making it clear I wasn't interested, but not hurting his feelings.
I won't say any more, because it doesn't end there, unfortunately, but please be careful with your friend.
Oh yes, and if she really likes you so much she'd wait, eh?
Hmmm... with this kind of question, I guess it's safe to ask (uh oh here he goes)
My current novia me dió un nalgazo when I was working I my car and told me, "te quiero". Does that mean she loves me?
Don't get stuck inside your head about it. Remember that there could be more than one explanation for a long hug, and these reasons do not necessarily have to have something to do with you. If you want to know if she likes you, look for more evidence or simply just ask.
Oh, hey, do those cats on my avatar love each other? Because they are defiantly kissing! LoL