i love him and hate him at the same time!!!!!!!!!

Question

well, there is someone that i loved since i was a child, then when i grew up i thought that i'm done with him.. and that i've forgetten him, but.. it seems i didn't!!! i mean i don't even know if i do love him or not! but i think about him alot! the worst thing is that i don't know if he feel the same for me or not! i feel like i'm lost or something.. what should i do?! i can't tell him about my feeling, because i don't know if my feelings were true or not!! and i'm really afraid from his reaction!! oh! i forgot to mention that he had helped me alot when i faced some problems, he was right next to me when i needed him =) to be more honest, even if he was feeling the same for me, i won't accept a relationship between we both, because i don't feel he is the one for me!! Gosh.. this is complicated!! i seriously need any help, anyone to tell me what to do to forget him!

Answer 1

You are trying to regain a hold on something which may not have been a reality , there is only one reality for you and that is the here and now . have faith in your own strength of character and your own ability to determine not only the future road to take but with whom you need to travel it with.

When we free ourselves of desire ,we will know serenity and freedom.

Answer 2

I dont think that u have to forgit him , seems to me that hes a very good person , I

don`t think that u will find any good man like him . u said that he helped u

when u faced problems so he is already a good man , This`s my point of view but of

course , resolution up to you in the end .