"ten calma" or "tengas calma"

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I am trying to say, "be calm." When I was watching a drama in Spanish, the phrase "ten calma" was used. When I tried to use the phrase today in speaking to my son (I forgot which form of tener to use), my son's friend from Colombia told me I could say "tengas calma." So now I'm confused!

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HI jennie, I hope you have been welcomed already, I can see you are fairly new to the sitesmile

Ten clama is the correct choice.

You can say "Que tengas calma". But this form is used when you want to emphasise :

I told you to be...

Te dije que tengas calma.

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Thank you for the nice welcome. I greatly appreciate the help! - Jennivee Nov 7
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"Ten calma" is in the imperative mood, so it is a command. "Tenga calma" is in the subjuctive mood, so it is a recommendation.

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?? one is informal and one is formal imperative (though it can also be subjunctive) - qfreed Nov 7
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The first is the subjunctive form of "tener", which means that your are expressing a wish, desire, hope, etc. "Tengas" is the familiar 2nd person present tense. In your example, you might say "Quiero que tengas calma." "Quiero que" can be implied. "I hope that you calm down/be calm".

The use us "ten" is the imperative form - more of a command or directive. Also 2nd person. "¡Ten calma!" - "Be calm!" or "Calm down!"

Click on the "More" button, then "conjugation". Type in "tener" to see all of the forms of this verb.

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A common way to tell someone to calm down is !Tranquila, tranquila¡

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And I always thought it was tequila, tequila!! :) - Jason7R Nov 7
Yes, 'tranquila' if that someone is female. Tranquilo if it's a male :P - InésDelRío Nov 7
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Ok, so I am thinking that it depends on the situation? Like, if I'm talking more from my point of view- talking about what I hope for or want someone to do- I would say "Quiero que tengas calma." This would have made sense in the situation because it was not urgent that my son calm down. However, if my son had been in hysterics or about get into trouble or something, a better choice would be "Ten calma" with exclamations maybe? Or, maybe I am understanding this incorrectly still, and I should generally just say "ten calma."

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