Sweet Tinkerbell and her husband Mitch are losing their baby, please accept our sympathy:(

Question

This was going to be a very colourful post congratulating our lovely forer Tinkerbell who has been a friend of mine from almost the very beginning of this site to her child, Jacob.

However, she was told that her still unborn child is not going to live or at least not long.

I was in a state of shock when I heard about this. Both Mitch and Tinki have decided not to have an abortion and lead the pregnancy to an end.

I would like to support them for their so very brave decision and tell them that all members of this forum are sure with her, her son and her husband.

Tinki, Mitch and Jacob ,we love you

• thanks everyone for your support I really appreciated your coments - Tinkerbell1 Oct 15, 2009

Answer 1

Kitty,

My thoughts and prayers for you and your family.

Shrek.

Psalm 23 1The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want. 2He makes me lie down in green pastures; he leads me beside still waters; 3he restores my soul. He leads me in right paths for his name’s sake. 4Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I fear no evil; for you are with me; your rod and your staff— they comfort me. 5You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies; you anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows. 6Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life, and I shall dwell in the house of the Lord my whole life long.

Answer 2

This isn't a good thing, who knows mabye things will turn out better, remember there is always room for a miracle!

• HI Eric, it is very sweet of you to participate in this thread, thanks a lot. - Heidita Sep 20, 2009

Answer 3

I got this message from lovely Tinky today and I would like to share it with you. As far as I know all is well so far and Jacob and her husband are well too

(I know, she does not spell correctly, jejeje, but after all this was a private letter...., I think we can make an exception)

hey how do i post a response to like everyone not just one by one as it would take me an awfull time to answer and say thanks for all the coments... as you know i dont have internet and i just got the chance to read the comments... so i wanted to let everyone know im apreciating it all and im not ignoring.. i just dont have internet sooo tell me how to do it please

Tinki has appreciated all those lovely comments very much indeed and I am sure it has comforted her in this sad moment. We still have hope....

Answer 4

I am new to the forum so do not know Tinkerbell and Mitch. I have to admire their courage to give this child whatever chance it has.And I can not imagine the sorrow that goes with a situation like this. May they be well.

Answer 5

Tinkerbell, Mitch, baby Jacob and Heidita,

Never give up on positive thinking! I have a really good friend who was not supposed to be born, and her mother was told she would have a stillborn or suffer a miscarriage. She decided to let things happen naturally and had a 5 month old baby who is now a healthy 21 y/o woman with a 2 year old baby girl.

If the mother had doubted for a second my friend would not be here. So think positive and send your baby the best that you have! Even though I am fairly new to the forum please receive the best of energies and warm hugs!

Don't give up!

Answer 6

Such horrible news, but let's hope it's God's will for that little boy to live a long and healthy life...

Sweet Tinkerbell and her familiy will be in my prayers.

P.S: I was born three months premature, and I am going to turn 16 in a few months, so have faith.

Answer 7

Even though I am fairly new to the forum please receive the best of energies and warm hugs!

I want to say just the same...

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And remember:

...as thou hast believed, be it done unto thee...

Answer 8

Sorry to hear about this, however I have heard of many babies who "don't have much time to live", that end up living a normal life. Hopefully this will be the same for you!

Answer 9

Latest update on Tinki:

thanks for posting it ..... i will send photos... i just did some with my belly its really cute i dont have any of jacob yet other than in my belly but when i have him ill take some besos

I asked her for photos, as Anne recommended to take some. I am happy to see all are still ok