Sweet Tinkerbell and her husband Mitch are losing their baby, please accept our sympathy:(

Question

This was going to be a very colourful post congratulating our lovely forer Tinkerbell who has been a friend of mine from almost the very beginning of this site to her child, Jacob.

However, she was told that her still unborn child is not going to live or at least not long.

I was in a state of shock when I heard about this. Both Mitch and Tinki have decided not to have an abortion and lead the pregnancy to an end.

I would like to support them for their so very brave decision and tell them that all members of this forum are sure with her, her son and her husband.

Tinki, Mitch and Jacob ,we love you

• thanks everyone for your support I really appreciated your coments - Tinkerbell1 Oct 15, 2009

Answer 1

All of my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. You have made a hard decision, but never give up hope. There is always room for a miracle. My niece was born 3 months early and could not breath or eat on her own. They said she would never make it. Now she is a rambunctious 15 year-old girl who is in school on grade level and loves to draw. Never give up hope!

Answer 2

Matthew 19:14

...for the kingdom of the heavens belongs to such-like ones.

Answer 3

Tinkerbell and Mitch,

My first baby, a boy - Murray - lived for a only a few days (which we knew would be the case) .. and... you think the sadness will never end - but somehow it does with the help of family and friends and kind words like those expressed here in the forum. We were encouraged to take lots of photos of Murray, which we did - and the photos are amongst my most treasured possessions.

My thoughts are with you both, Annie.

• I am really sorry for your loss, annie, I appreciate your post a lot. thanks for sharing. - Heidita Sep 9, 2009

Answer 4

Kitty,

Wish I could come up there and give you a hug! Know that you guys are in our prayers down here every day. Lots of love and hugs. Valerie

Answer 5

I will still pray for a miracle. Hopefully there is still a chance that things can turn around.

• Me too Ive seen too much death is should stop - john12345678 Sep 9, 2009

Answer 6

My deepest sympathy to this family. They will be in my prayers.

Answer 7

Hope and faith You'l never walk alone not matter waht gods will

Answer 8

My condolences to you and your loved ones under these trying circumstances. Our hearts and prayers are with you.

Best wishes for you and your family.

Answer 9

My wife and I send our heartfelt condolences to your friends, and we are praying and hoping for the best.

Chris & Desi.

Answer 10

Lets just Hope that god helps your friend Heidita! Good luck!

Though may I know what is wrong whit the baby please?

• We don't really know, they are just saying the baby is non-viable, sorry if that is the incorrect term, it will not live. - Heidita Sep 9, 2009
• Oh ok :( - Koalasan Sep 9, 2009
• :( I Love Kids and can't stand to know they will not live! - Koalasan Sep 9, 2009
• its meckel-gruber syndrome.. you can look it up if you want, tinki - Tinkerbell1 Oct 1, 2009

Answer 11

I'm afraid I never met Tinkerbell, or at least don't remember the encounter, but the loss of a child is without equal as far as personal tragedies go. My deepest sympathy goes out to you both

• Thank you very much, Steve, I know you are having a bad time yourself. Thanks a lot. - Heidita Sep 9, 2009

Answer 12

so sorry to heard about the hard situation that your friends are facing, Heidita :( ! I'll pray for them and their baby in my heart

Answer 13

Thank you very much lyzs, I am sure Tinkerbell will come personally to thank you

Answer 14

Awww...how very sad. I'm sorry for Tinkerbell and her family. I send my deepest sympathy and prayers to her.

Answer 15

So sad to hear about their awful news. I am sure, however, that their love for each other, the love of their families and the love of their friends will see them through this terrible ordeal.